Thanks tinman, you have a great heart. I don't care what anybody else says about you, including myself.
Sometimes it doesn't go as planned. Sometimes you drink wa too much so after a while you both fake it so you can finally wind down and relax from the crazy day. Or so I've been told.
Decide how you are going to handle finances. It seems like a downer, but it can cause issues. For example does she work? If so, will you pool money or will you split the bills and keep seperate accounts? I am fortunate that it has not been an issue for me (although I just let my wife buy whatever the hell she wants) but I have known more marriages soured by finances... especially if money is short. You need to define the roles in your relationship... do what works best for both of you.
Isn't this the place where the waiters are trained to rag on you? I am sure it's fine but seems like an odd place to go on a wedding? It's your deal but I would look at other places for wedding day? Maybe dicks day before or day after? Unless I am missing something here and there is some reason to go to dicks.
In case you've never been, prepare yourself. The food sucks. Unsure if that's part of the draw or not.
Congratulations, Roc Paint! Hey, do you really need us to tell you what to do after the ceremony? ;-)- Where are you going for your honeymoon, or are you two lovebirds able to go on one right away? No everyone can, of course. My suggestion for the great day? Go to a Central Market and look around (or ask) for the Kama Sutra "fun kit." It has small samples of a host of goodies to play with. If you aren't familiar with that sort of stuff (not everyone is a sex crazed Blade Runner, like yours truly), it's a good way to get introduced. Best to check it out, instead of having me describe it to you and possibly get tossed. :-D-
