[Relationships] Is jealously healthy or destructive?

From my experience... if you're not at all the type to get jealous... such as myself...

Women seem to want you to get at least a little bit jealous, once in a while... for some reason...

This can be traced to the long held theory... that may be more fact than theory... that women/girls simply don't know what they want... Human beings, in general, seemed to be plagued by this flaw... but it seems worse with women...

 

That leads to the dark side. Keep a lightsaber handy.

 

One time, after a long night at some honky-tonk in Pasadena, my girlfriend and I went to a local diner. These 3 girls walked and and said hi to me and she went off. She left the diner and went to the street and tried to hitchhike home. I got in my truck and told her to get in. She said no and I was like "fine, forget it!"

But then I got out of my truck and we got into a little wrestling match in a big puddle of water and this other truck almost ran us over. Finally, we both got back in the truck and I said "you wanna get married?"

The rest is history.

 

Question is, did you want to **** that waitress at a restaurant in Atlanta?

 

Can you please explain Battlefield Earth to me?

 

It might increase the frequency, if played correctly.

 

anything too much is bad and dangerous.

 

LaMarcus Aldridge

 

Jealousy is definitely destructive!

Totally agree with moe on this! Jealousy has for it's foundation past failures, either witnessed or by personal experience! The need to control or have possession of someone is not true love. True love is the giving of oneself for the benefit of others! One thing is certain, jealousy grows as time passes,so it's important to address the failures in your past, or you'll always live a life full of insecurity , which will cause emotional pain and turmoil to your "loved one".
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let's see if it's healthy, when she cuts off your penis and stuffs it with the hot dogs in the fridge. =(

 

You must be talking about true love.

 

Do we live in a world where jealousy is possibly a good thing? Lol

 

I think you've got the first two reversed. Insecurity leads to Jealousy.


Your correct about everything else though.

 

Your premise is flawed. A jealous significant other doesn't mean they won't cheat and I've seen situations where a jealous significant other is more likely to cheat because they suspect their partner has cheated and they feel they need to get even.

 

interesting..I always heard that if your partner is the jealous type its because they are usually the cheating type and assume their significant other is just like them. In other words, they know they'd cheat..so they assume their partner would too.

 

That has to be one of the most touching love stories ever.

Brings back fond (but blurry) memories of working at Texas Tapes & Records out on Spencer Highway and watching them film Urban Cowboy.

 

Seen this as well. Good point.

 

Jealousy is never good. In small doses it can be controlled, killed even. Not worth the hassle.