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[Relationships] Is jealously healthy or destructive?

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by roxxfan, May 5, 2014.

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Healthy?

  1. Yes (A jealous gf/bf is a faithful one)

    11 vote(s)
    16.9%
  2. No.

    46 vote(s)
    70.8%
  3. IDK

    8 vote(s)
    12.3%
  1. roxxfan

    roxxfan Member

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    Is having a girlfriend or boyfriend that tends to get a little jealous at times a good or bad thing? At what point does it become a deal-breaker?
     
  2. Blake

    Blake Member

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    **** no. Jealousy is poison
     
  3. RedRedemption

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    Nope.
    Not healthy, but inevitable. Its human nature.
    And no, you don't have to be jealous to be faithful. LOL.
     
  4. cheke64

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    I love my crazy b****. Cavity search before and after work
     
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  5. Mr. Brightside

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    How often do you or your gf say "YOLO" on average in a span of a day?
     
  6. Mr. Clutch

    Mr. Clutch Member

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    Does it improve teh sex?
     
  7. TheMystery008

    TheMystery008 Member

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    This is a head scratcher.

    You trust le internet for relationship advise?
     
  8. Jontro

    Jontro Member

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    What I learned from teh internets is that relationships is full of teh secks. In many different positions.

    source:
    keezmovies
    redtube
    etc.
     
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  9. SwoLy-D

    SwoLy-D Member

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    She (or he, I don't know what your case might be) is jealous because they don't know if you're happy with them or if they're not keeping you happy. Insecurities of themselves doing wrong things also reflect upon their behavior.

    :eek: Time to skip town if he doesn't stop being a jealous boyfriend. Have the TRUST talk.
     
  10. TheMystery008

    TheMystery008 Member

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    Is that a SexyButIgnorant pun?
     
  11. Houstunna

    Houstunna Mr Graphix
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    Dude's should never show jealousy. I expect it from women though.
     
  12. Phillyrocket

    Phillyrocket Member

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    Jealousy leads to insecurity which leads to fear which leads to anger which leads to suffering.

    Dump her now.

    Your welcome.
     
  13. percicles

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    I'm Latin so I love the hot and spicy drama.
     
  14. Nook

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    Jealousy is a really bad thing and it only gets worse as a relationship gets older.

    I had an ex girlfriend that was very jealous... Notice I said ex. I was in my late teens when she accused me of wanting to **** a waitress at a Restaurant in Atlanta... After 3 hours of her screaming, I shoved my car keys in her hand and told her to drive home to her mama and never call or see me again. I spent the night in a hotel and took a flight back to Houston the next morning.
     
  15. moestavern19

    moestavern19 Member

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    If she is jealous and suspicious, she either knows the type, or is the type. Past failures impact new relationships.
     
  16. Phillyrocket

    Phillyrocket Member

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    Same situation excused of random women, coworkers, etc. rinse repeat about a dozen times over the course of several years.

    Final divorce hearing is in July.

    Jealousy and insecurity just destroys any trust like someone else said it's a poison. Dump all insecure/jealous people immediately.
     
  17. Jontro

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    You gave her your car, breh?
     
  18. Nook

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    Truck... and yeah I didn't care after hours of irrational screaming, she could have it if she left. Ultimately she called my brother, he picked it up and tried to give it to me... I told him to keep it, I didn't want anything that she used or was associated with.

    Best decision I ever made. She was sexy and fun, but not worth the jealousy and petty vindictive crap she did.
     
  19. RedRedemption

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    Damn dude. That's just vitriol. If you're willing to give up a car to get away from your ex lol.
     
  20. roxxfan

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    :eek:
     

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