I have one time because I was to big a p***y to break up with the girl I had dated 4 years previously. Things got boring and I decided too bang a girl I had been friends with for 6 years. Was awesome, and slightly thereafter my girlfriend noticed my guilt and broke up with me. Needless to say the guilt alone makes it not worth it.
I've been cheated on before and it kind of changes you...sometimes you just don't give a eff about cheating (depending on the girl). But I wouldn't do it to somebody who I know in my heart really loves me.
I did in college when I was young and stupid. I still regret it to this day. I didn't like the way it made me feel. Would never even consider it now that I'm...you know...a grown up.
Never cheated on any girlfriend ever, not even in middle school. If you can't man up and end it before you cheat you are a coward.
I agree. I've dated around plenty. Talked to multiple girls on and off but once we've established that we are in a relationship then the rules are set. Maybe you were just dating around?
Agree with this somewhat. I had been tempted, still am, many times in the past but always walk away. Not worth the guilt I will most surely feel.
My Mom could always see when I became disinterested with a girl and would hound me to stop wasting their time and end it. It sucked to do it but learning how to break up with someone is a very important skill lol.
I think you forgot to account for the online population that has never had a BF/GF. But seriously, I have always said: clean up one mess before you start another.
Eatin' ain't cheatin'! Not on my current wife and never will. She's too amazing and loving for me to ever even fathom it. Now, I eye-**** the hell out of some womens, but honestly, even when I see a hot girl, I get to thinking about my wife anyway. The only time I did on my ex-wife was in the final months of our relationship and I pretty much knew she was out of town with another dude, so I gave it to the girl I was messing around with when we were previously separated.
Sometimes. But yeah man, I'm just a bad person. I can admit that but don't like to be judged. It is what it is. I don't feel good about it. I don't feel bad about it.
i get that. always wondered if it's something you grow out of (like, suddenly one day you're a "one woman man"/"one man woman") or if it's a character flaw that sticks around forever. it's like some peoples' conscience doesn't kick in all the way.
I've done some dirt in the distant past, but I'm married now. And "it's cheaper to keep her." Also, a wise relative told me before I got married: "Never shiit where you eat." I've been hearing those little one line words of wisdom from older people all my life. And the older I get, the more sense they make.
on my GF, yes. Have been faithful to everyone i've had (short or long) for the past 10yrs. Youth deserves forgiveness for certain kinds of indiscretions. on my BF, yes. We used to rent a garçonnière @ the Court At Museums Gate, when my Best Friends were single. In my defense, he was sleeping upstairs, i woke him him up & told/asked him what was happening townstairs. The green light was given. No guilt or drama or followed between my BF & I....she was soon single.
