I was not trying to be mean. Hope it didn't come off that way. I just think that privately touching (cuddling while watching movies together, in bed, etc) is necessary to a functional relationship.
I didn't take any offense to it whatsoever. I really will have to think about it and decide how I feel about him/us.
I don't know if thinking about how you feel about someone you are already dating is a good sign... Maybe this has pushed you away to the point where its ruining/has ruined what was there....
dude is just horny. take care of him in private and he'll be more open to leaving you alone in public
I once got tossed from a Las Vegas nightclub (rain...10 years ago) because this Korean chick kept dancing inappropriately on me while I was seated on a bench. So I can provide a personal testimony for how this type of activity can be an issue. The silver lining from my story is the chick also got tossed...
Don't sweat it too much. Guys are simple, and unless there's a deeper insecurity or something, he shouldn't take it too hard. Now, tact is obviously a must, but as long as you don't verbally castrate him, it should be cool.
if you aren't going to be physical with him even in private, then you're just looking for a friendship
I was under the impression you just didn't like getting physical in public. If you don't like doing anything even when you are not in public, you need to be done with it. If a girl came to me and said she no longer wanted any kind of physical affection, it would be a double technical. If she didn't feel comfortable being affectionate in public, I understand. None at all? Peace out.
His next move if not addressed: <iframe width="420" height="315" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/VmrfKVghueA" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> Or is that him?
It sounds like he doesn't respect you. You are just meat to him. Stop being a beta and start being a bawsy ass b**** b**** b****.
