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[breakup advice] ended a two year old relationship

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by putyouonthegame, Nov 27, 2013.

  1. CometsWin

    CometsWin Breaker Breaker One Nine

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    Did you shoplift the pootie from a single mother? smh
     
  2. Garner

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    Now reading through this thread, you have some personal issues to work through (as do most people).

    Get some confidence.

    Start working on yourself and you'll be amazed to see everything else fall into place when you take it seriously.

    Start downloading and listening to the Adam carolla and dr drew podcast.
     
  3. khanhdum

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    she was ****ing someone else for sure
     
  4. SK34

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    /end thread..
     
  5. putyouonthegame

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    Here's an update:

    I finally caved in and called her and told her I missed her and want her back. I even told her I'm willing to meet her kids as a desperate measure.. I know big mistake .. She said she'll have to think about it .. Which is also big mistake .. So I'm back to where I started.

    It's been tough and I'm trying really hard to forget about her but it's not working. I can't sleep eat and do normal things. I just get reminded of her.

    I know in the long run, it's better for me cause I really have no interest of being with someone that has kids.
     
  6. Yonkers

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    Appreciate the update but when the outcome is like what you wrote, I just have to smh because all Clutchfan relationship posts end this way.
     
  7. putyouonthegame

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    Most likely.

    Only problem is, I've helped her out financially and she owes me money and is also part of my cell account. I told her she needs to call the company and move the number over but she hasn't yet.

    If it was a small amount I would let it go, but it's a significant amount and it's on my credit card.

    Stupid is me for sure.
     
  8. CCorn

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    Here's an update. I'm back to where I started.

    Have you banged two girls yet?
     
  9. putyouonthegame

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    Lol no. I don't have any other girls to even talk to let alone have sex with.

    I'm not one of those guys who have girls waiting for him to get ****ed by.
     
  10. Amel

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    5 STAR THREAD GUISE!
     
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  12. RV6

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    So, now you have a woman stressing out over giving you another chance, which she probably will, and all along you've known you really don't want another shot because of her kids.

    Smooth move.
     
  13. putyouonthegame

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    Ummmm... Why would she be stressing out? I think she's moved on. If she wanted be together, why would she say I need to think about it?
     
  14. Carmenjello

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    Big mistake bro. It's a lose-lose situation for you now. If she takes you back, she now has all the power in the relationship. Call it quits while you can.
     
  15. Rashmon

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    If she is smart, she will drop you like a ton of bricks and run away for the sake of her children. You seem much too immature and shallow to risk damaging the emotional development of her children. Hopefully, she figured that out.
     
  16. CCorn

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    And how many people are? If it takes 100 rejections for one erection ask 200 times!
     
  17. RV6

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    If she didn't want to be together, why would she want to think about it??

    It's more likely she told you that because she actually had to think it over and not because she's a liar. You're the one that had a problem with her and not the other way around.
     
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  18. putyouonthegame

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    Here's a secret .. She was my second (first real love) .. And I'm 27... So there was a reason why I got attached
     
  19. cheke64

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    I didn't know it was so bad to date a woman with kids.
     
  20. Stone Cold Hakeem

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    But if what she does want to be with you? What if she does have feelings for you but is conflicted over how poorly you treat her? What if she's hung on to you, despite the fact that you don't want to meet her kids because she's lonely, like you?

    If you don't see a future with her and her kids, you need to cut off communication and move on, for her sake as much as yours.
     

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