1) She's fair game. She's not his gf, and you're not even his close friend, it doesn't matter if he might like her. If you want it go for it. 2) End of January is too far away.. Doesn't come off natural. I mean shes not even your gf, you're going to set aside TIME for her two months away? 3) I say go for it, be decisive but smooth. Often you don't have to ask her out to a date official. Just be fun to be around, confident, funny, and let the chips fall where they may. Don't be desperate. If she likes you she will make it obvious to you. Also, make sure you keep hanging out with other girls. Until she's your gf you're a free man. Don't put all your eggs in one basket.
Do you know how we all know you're in the friendzone? Since you do not know what to do, my suggestion is to hit up girls you don't know. Date often. This girl is a friend with you for a reason. You're safe to her. Women don't friend for the same reasons guys do. If you really are into this girl, you need to step away from your friendship for a while then come back.
Such a beta thing to say... You're in no position to ask her whether she hooked up with that guy. SHE IS NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND. DON'T BE A CREEP. LOL You seem like a weak beta male. Women don't like beta behavior. Alpha's wouldn't care about this load of crock schite. It's obvious you're friendzoned and this will not end well. Your weak ass behavior is why you'll most likely be going to the nhl game all by your lonesome or with another dude, while the other guy will chillin out with the girl, banging her in his/her bedroom.
Bro, take that nhl money and buy some expensive ass shoes. Chicks notice stupid things like that and that will impress her a hella lot more than some hockey tix. Also, jusk ask her out. Stop pretending you dont want to ruin the friendship. Real friends dont fantasize about pouring chocolate syrup down the small of each others back while keith sweat is playing in the background.
1.Give your dick power : A lot of yall dudes on these forums is a guilty of chasing broads for sex. You will have sex with whatever comes around your neighborhood. Females view your dick as low value because anyone can get it. It's like giving away freebies at a fundraiser they gonna end up throw to the curve. They are two key things that you need to and that is ration your dick. You need to make your dick the prize . Reward your broad with sex when she cooperates and don't always want to jump on top of her. Females will be attracted to the challenge and they will work to get your dick if they know you not gonna just give it to them and your not begging for the p***y. They bake you brownies and wear all kinds of **** for you. The 2nd rule of this game is that you must and I REPEAT MUST MAKE YOUR GIRL c*m when you give her the dick. Females are very sensual creatures and a man that can make her squirt can be her addiction because a lot of men only look for their nut. This makes your dick have power because you can give her pleasure that she has never felt. You need learn how to touch and tease every part of your body. 2.Trump the p***y card : This connects and relates a lot to rule number 1. The mentality that you need to have is that p***y is mere recreation. When you chase p***y what do you get but that 10 seconds of release. Sex is like any type of fun. Sex is like drinking liquor at my crib because they both are fun for awhile then I go to sleep. If you chase money then p***y will chase you and possibly a better life. If you chase knowledge then you become a mentality stronger person. If your chase p***y then what are you getting ? If you chase the right things in life then you can get any type of p***y that you want. Set your priorities straight my fellow upa members. You need to make her feel that her p***y does not have value to you and she has to bring a lot more to the table to keep you around 3." A player is never emotional "--- You need to have a nonchalant demeanor around these broads fellas. You need to remain to a certain degree a mystery with your feelings. If your feeling depressed or got **** going on then you need to relay that your fellas. A woman is not equipped to deal the problems of a man. She should come to you when she is emotionally down and needs comfort. You have to make her constantly wonder about your feelings. Females are like black widows in a sense because they tease you to show her true feelings and emotions and then use it against you and eventually eat you alive. This advice is the most important because once you get real emotional attached then you start to lose your power and she gains power. 4. A *******/thug is always remembered but a nice guy is finish last-- This is a important rule in my opinion. There are times in your relationship that you got to **** on a b**** or check a b**** for getting out of pocket. You only lift a girl up to your level at times when she has earned that respect. I am not advocating anyone on this board become thugs but you need a " thug" mentality with these broads. There a reason why these broads attract to the bad boys at certain times in their lives. You got make her feel at times that she is hanging off a cliff . 5. Value your time : If your up under your girlfriend ass then she not gonna appreciate time with you. You need to put arms length of space between you and your chick. A girl must feel that you have priorities and that your time is precious. Don't jump to her every text or every call. They got to be days once in a while where you just distant yourself from her and recharge. A broad will value your company if you give her a chance to miss you. - From someone
^^what shayan said, but with less words. Basically ask her if she wants the D. If not, then convince her she wants the D. If still not, then post pics of her for us to judge further.
It's all bout dat text game breh. If u ain't spittin dat fire boo u not gon get dat gushy gushy wet wet ya kna doe?
Sounds like you already ****ed it up. As soon as you like a chick you need to ask her out. You don't wait around like a schmuck.
prefer calling over texting.. Makes it more personal.. Call her.. Quick 5 minutes conversation.. Be like.. Lets hang out.. These days are good for me (Friday or Sunday).. Which out of the two are good for you? She should answer either one.. Then give her two times for the day.. Okay 5 or 9 Pm?.. She should again pick one.. Then thats that. Why? You're giving her options to choose from.. You're not giving her an opportunity to say that she is busy even if she is.. She basically got choices for the days you selected.. She got choices for the time.. She just has to select. If you leave it upon the girl, then she could say she is busy all week and you have nothing left.. You got to be the man of the conversation, the relationship, and everything.. Let her choose and follow your direction.. Lead her to what she wants (You?)
as great as that sounds some girls are cold and will still come up with an excuse, you are putting op in a tight spot of getting rejected quick. especially since they are in finals right now, she will be busy
Well that was for general. OF course, when times change, your approach has to change. Since you already know that its finals time, you'll have to do something else.. He says he studies w/ her, so he can study at a starbucks w/ her and then take her out to eat etc... etc... And if a girl rejects you cold blooded then you already know that she isn't interested in you. There is no point of pursuing.. You'll seem like you are "thirsty" and a "simp".. You can't force someone into liking you. This happens usually in the first impression. Let the chips fall where they may but you have to take the approach to see where you stand.
Agreed. Jontro and shayan are on top of this as well. You already lost this chick. Women can smell fear on you. You need to approach it with humor. This posting for tips about a hypothetical girl just wreaks of you not being capable of taking care of her in the first place. Man up, brah.
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