I would Stand my ground. Also, no way- that sounds like a scam 100%. General rule of thumb I live by- if your story is too long and complicated, then odds are that you're not being honest. I learned that firsthand.
You did the right thing. I won't even answer my door these days unless we're expecting someone. Too many crazies.
You definitely did the right thing. I probably hear **** like that once a week where I live. It's sad because maybe 1 in 100 are genuine people in need, but would I survive the other 99 scams? Yuck. #depressinghumanity
Yeah you did it right. I've had a few similar situations, but none at my own house. That would make me an unhappy man if someone walked up to my house trying to pull some shizz. If anything, you were too nice.
Also depends what time of day it is. If it is in the evening a definite hell to the no. Seems like you assessed the situation just right and if anything were too polite to this shady character.
I always have an A, B, and C strike plan to get out of any potentially life-threatening situation. I would have done an ocular assessment of the situation, garnered that he was not a security risk, and cleared him. I'm simply talking about breaking down the security situation, clearing an individual, and making it safe for passage.
You absolutely did the right thing. He was likely trying to pull a scam on you. He could have had you drive him to where his buddies were waiting to rob you. Did he say why it wasn't possible to call someone he knows to come help him?
He was probably going to lead you down some dead end road with no one around, then either pull out his gun or have his accomplices ambush you, kidnap you, then kill you.
I would have done the same thing, except no way would I have mentioned my wife was inside. The fact that you annoyed him by taking so long means he probably wasn't in trouble to begin with.
Yeah, no way I give any details. Period. He asks for a ride - I politely say, no, and move on with my life.
LOL that's funny. You forgot something though. Man approaches you? You should sucker punch him, break his nose and then smash his head into the concrete. Dude should take the beating like a man.