I posted a similar thread a few years back. Move on bro. Go to the gym. I was chubby before she broke up with me, now I'm swoll and have a big ****. Lol. But seriously, move on. Hang out with your friends. Do everything to make you become better.
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Stay away. Once a cheater always a cheater. Find a girl who lives in the same city as you and go out and have fun
I missed this the first time. Can't find a facepalm big enough for this. "I'm going off to college, but I promise not to meet new friends or have any fun whatsoever." Unbelieveable.
Hit the gym, learn an instrument, get drunk with your friends, and live your life. Confidence in yourself is attractive. Girls will pick up on that, and gravitate towards you. If you follow this advice, by the end of the summer, you won't even be thinking about this girl. You're young, and life goes on.
At 20, i'll say NEVER fall for any girl. Make them fall for you. And when they fall for you, keep your distance to a point where it keeps her always wondering if she has all of you. You can like her a lot, but always remember there's endless amounts of p***y out there. As a man, you have been programmed to want to spread your seed. The more ass you get, the more girls will want you. They can smell p***y on you from a mile away and they love it. Its all about wanting to be better than every other girl for them. Its just a big competition between themselves. They want to be with the guy they feel they beat so many other girls to be with. All about feeling special. Why do you think so many gush over married men and guys in serious relationships? They feel they're better than that girl and should be the one next to them. Everyone has their ways. I learned from the opposite direction. Ever since middle school to my mid 20's, i was the guy with so many different girls all the time(even bang lots of fat/thick girls. Don't be too picky on the way to building your confidence. There's always a below avg girl waiting to blow your mind with an amazing BJ. Oh, and protect yourself my man. No matter how much it sucks to wear a condom). I was an absolute 10 and i liked taking advantage of it. I kept my idea of always remaining open to other chicks even if im getting serious with one, and it worked to get this super hot girl (that looks like my dream girl Lynda Carter) to fall for me in my mid 20's. But, then i let down my guard. To make a long story short, she left me absolutely destroyed. She chose her baby daddy over me, divorced and now married again shortly after to a guy with his own kid. Pfft... I lost myself, i became this pathetic shadow of who i used to be. I tried being the good guy. I promised myself i wouldn't sleep with anyone anymore and be serious. Over a year and a half with no sex or anything. No girls came near me during this time even when i wanted them to. I end up 30lbs gained and sloppy looking. A drunk slob. Walk everywhere with my head down. I'd look at a girl with a shy stare, and look away when she catches my eyes. I had no confidence in who i was. I'm just now getting the motivation back. I'm remembering how good it feels when you bang a girl and you hardly contact her after and she's texting you and calling and you never bother and laugh to yourself. To have a married b**** bug me all the time wanting to cheat on her hubby with me more. How good it feels when you're out with a girl and other girls obviously throw themselves at you in front of her when they wouldn't have looked at you if you were alone or with guys. Ask yourself, Why? Why would you ever go crazy over ONE girl. There will ALWAYS be someone better. In my case, i'm all about looks now. Obviously not the one that's dumb as ****. But there are extremely beautiful and intelligent girls out there too. I want to pass the best genetics on for my children. When love comes. Great. It's an awesome feeling. There is an amazing woman out there for all of us. But, if you slip and a better man comes along and she doesn't feel special with you anymore. Don't forget there's always many other girls with more stunning eyes, a better body, and full of the same compatibility you had with her. It's always a game. Into your 30's. You'll get the girls saying they don't want games. But, i promise it's exactly what they want. When they become twice divorced cougars in their 40's, they don't want to be the game anymore...they make young college aged dudes the game. You just have to be the best to play it at any age. There's a beast waiting to rip out of my chest again. I'm going to be that bad ass hard chargin Marine i used to be. There's a beast within you as well. Beast these b****es my friend. And when the better man gets a girl over you. Fist pump your bro and congratulate and move along. Last tip: If you wanna know how to **** a girl good. Look at the p*rn star...i think his name is manuel ferrara or something like that. Watch how he ****s girls. Be passionate. Make lots intense eye contact and kissing while you're ****ing them hard. I guess the passion comes natural for me being a latino. I want so badly to bring back the latin lover rep that so many little stupid thug ****s have destroyed. The passion starts in your lips and your finger tips. #bewell
Damn, reading the sad stories of guys like Haymitch make me realize how hard things can be on the other side of the fence. All the animosity, fear and respect shown towards me for no real reason completely make sense now. While I was banging college girls with boyfriends, those guys were at home waiting by the phone, curling their hair and shedding tears over what might have been. Although i suspect I did you guys a favor, helping you differentiate between the ho's and housewives for your future endeavors. Then again, all housewives are ho's around the right guy. Just something to think about.
Basically you liked her more than she liked you. You stayed true to your agreement and she didn't because she saw others guys that interested her more. Now she's not sure what she wants, but that's not your problem. Move on. Now that youre not worried about some agreement, you'll notice more interesting girls all the time. Don't keep talking to her or you'll regret wasting time with her later on. Other girls out there are more compatible with you and won't always remain single.
If that is true or not it does not matter. More importantly that makes someone a bad person. And even if that type of person has friends typically good people don't want to be around people like that. So help people lie and cheat that makes you a great man. Just something to think about. PS previous post in this thread was a joke : )
Unbelievable This guy is going to regret wasting that time Dump here immediately and move on. You are wasting prime years of your life. You could (should) be having a lot of fun in Boston
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I posted this story a long long time ago. But it totally changed me. I was suspecting my girl of cheating on me. You know. The usually stuff. Being shady, hanging out with friends all the time, getting mad when I touched her phone. Keep in mind when she hung out with her friends, her friend always parked around the corner and she would walk out there to meet them. Well one day I couldn't take it anymore so I waited for the moment. She told me she was going out with her friends so I tell her im going to the gym to workout. Little did she know I hid behind a car waiting for her to come out so I can take a peak at who she went out with. Well after 10 minutes of waiting and peaking underneath the car, thats when i saw what I didn't want to see. After years of working out, my calves were still totally small. Days later after advice from people, I changed my workout routine and now I got some big calves. Moral of the story. Live, laugh, and forget about her. You're young, there's plenty of girls out there. Take time to better yourself and get over her. Things will get better. AND LAUGH!
I wanna know, Ramona am I the only one tell me And she said "Your not the only one, but your the best Bradley!" BOP BOP. And now I'm waiting for my ruca and I barely pulled up with my heina I know tonight I'll be behind her, don't **** around with my heina.
