The Great p*rn Experiment

This is freaking hard, no pun intended, i've relapsed several times trying to quit p*rn and fapping. I don't know if i will succumb to the temptations again, it's been about 3 weeks since i relapsed and it feels like an eternity.

 

I've been there. I've had my fairy tale life **** upon for this entire website to see. I've been fodder for the trolls to prey on because I dare to inject real personality behind this screen name and it makes me an easy target for the degenerates.

I stayed in bed until 5 PM, ate nothing but gas station food for months, laid around my apartment smoking weed and cigarettes, getting way too into depressing indie music, hoping I was the next John Lennon.

All these things you describe I have known all too well.

But trust me, you are at the best point in your life right now. Why?
Because you have nothing left to lose. Now you are ready to go for it.

You are absolutely, unequivocally... yourself.

Go out into the world and inject pure 100% yourself into it, you'll be surprised at the results.

 

Here are jobs
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Get on the treadmill fatty, so that you feel better mentally and physically...

 

[2013-] The Official NoFap Thread

This will the official extension to the Great p*rn Experiment thread.

For those interested, the concept here is pretty much the same as that of the sub reddit NoFap page. The goal here is for guys like me who are/were addicted to p*rn and masturbation to overcome that addiction, and share our experiences along the way.

The guidelines are as followed:

1. All posts should begin with the number of days you've gone fap-free. i.e
"Day ___"

2. There will no insults or verbal abuse. Ya'll should know what is considered constructive criticism and what isn't. Jerk-off's will not be tolerated

3. Stay on the topic. Feel free to share any stories or experiences, as well as helpful links.

Finally, stay positive! . It's fine to relapse, the goal here is to feel better and better about what you see in the mirror each day, and to discover new things about yourself along this journey.

Good luck everyone!

 

Opps. Alright now it has its own thread

 

Spoiler

 

You're right. Nothing to lose.

 

Interesting.

 

It's not no p*rn and no fap. It's possible to fap without pron.

Might have to ask someone born before or during the 80 fore the details....

 

I finally broke down and went to a trainer so that I could break out of a similar disgusting cycle.

Outside your occaisional trollish dickishness due to possible isolation and projection, you have enough personality to go out and meet people.

Focus your frustrations on your workout. A human being was meant to do physical labor in some form. We rose from the jungles and ran ****loads before we ever spoke a real word. You spanking your p***y is only one small outlet for that, but it seems like you feel guilty for doing it, so stop that **** and whip yourself into shape.

If giving up p*rn cold turkey is bad, ramp it down. As for fast food, start with subway or get the burger joint's ridiculously expensive salad. Dude, I've had college diets where I ate nothing but steak and cheap cabbage. It was like 5 bucks a meal.

And the treadmill can be boring. You probably know ****load more exercises from your service. Be in the sunlight and do them. It's good for you, and natural light brightens the spirits.

Write goals for yourself and keep them. Make them realistic because you're only doing it for you. Not me or any other person.

Every decision is binary.

At least you have that for now. Many people don't.

 

I'm gonna go ahead and say I've cummed on my face quite a few times.

Picture this, you have just woken up, feeling like wanting to watch p*rn and masturbate like a motha@F@#$, so you rise up and sit up on your bed with your bum on the bed where you r pillow was and your pillow pulled up to lean on with your back. Then while in that position, laptop right next to you, you start to masturbate and bam! you ejaculate and since your penis is totally upright and kinda angled back, upwards, towards the ceiling but kinda back into the direction of your chest and face too. You don't expect it in the least but before you blink the c*m bursts out with a tonne of pressure and squirts up to your face.

I know I'm gonna get laughed at here for saying this, but this is just something to support Han Solo. He's obviously getting into wayyy too much unnecessary detail going off on tangents about things, but with the amount of abuse he's getting here I've said the above to support him and credit him for his honesty.

Quitting masturbating his hard, brothers. I suffer from depression and have been so for quite a few years, so I often turned to p*rn and masturbating to get my mind off things. Ironic how that just completely compounds the problem, as the video in the OP described, it just makes you even more depressed and deeper into social anxiety.

I'm on Day 5 of No Fap. Being depressed means its pretty hard to initiate an erection and even more difficult to sustain one, so I guess this would actually help me when it comes to stopping masturbation. Masturbation for me is actually like "an effort thing". I actually have to TRY and masturbate. Which sounds weird, cos who actually puts in EFFORT to do something BAD to themselves? LOL, sounds weird, but thats what its been like for me over the last couple of years.

Here's hoping I can sustain this No-Fap thing for an extended period of time.

Longest I've managed to achieve was a week before I finally relapsed. Now its Day 5, wonder how long it'll be before I relapse again.

Just sharing a little bit of my struggles with masturbation with y'all.

Peace~

 

I'm pretty sure this experiment is no p*rn rather than no fap.

Improving imagination over direct visual stimulus is healthy, and I'm a uhhh firm believer that unloading at least every three days is also healthy.

The health benefits of that are plenty (geez I hate talking about jacking off seriously). What OP is saying is that using p*rn to achieve that is not necessary.

Some of you guys are going against human nature and venturing into monk status. That's okay but out of the scope of the experiment and tons more difficult.

 

Good luck brother.

#NofapCFers

 

True, but sometimes when fapping your mind tends to re-create pron in the mind. So for some of us the first thing is to force ourselves to be re-sensitized first, and in doing so making fapping just an occasional outlet, instead of a constant need.

The trend on other boards is that after a while guys begin to see themselves differently, and begin to become more emotionally invested in socializing with real women. After that, if they continue, the world becomes their basket.

IN fact the true goal behind NoFap is quite the opposite of what some of you think. It's to reawaken the primal male instincts within us that have been overwritten by years of p*rn dependance. In that respect in the short term, yes it's a challenge. But when you consider the rewards, it's def worth a try.

 

^Good points

 

Well said

 

Some other questions:

Does this mean gynecologists and breast doctors have diminished arousal responses?

How about gay people - are they unable to get aroused when they see other men, because they see their junk so often, or is it because seeing one person's junk isn't enough to cause a decrease in libido?

Could fapping to only one woman on the Internet be okay? If that's the case, then you could try limiting yourself to fapping to only one p*rn star lol

 

Hell yeah. pr0n + fap = good person.

I can personally attest to this.