Bro Code *grin* any way BRO CODE: Don't date your friend's Exes Do you agree with this statement? The question I have is . . . What makes her an EX? They went out on at least 1 date? They went out for a certain amount of time? [Month? 6 Months?] or Is it that HE hit it! or Is it that he still had or has feelings for her? Ye Clutchfan Upholders of the Bro Code . . . what say you? Rocket River
Bro code, if your friend is friends with her, get clearance from him. It's a slap in the face to your friend if he likes a girl then you go out with her. I am no longer friends with a college buddy of mine because he dated my ex like a week after we broke up. I also hate dat b****.
it depends on how good the friend is, how long they dated, if they've moved on ect. personally, i don't like dating chicks i know good friends have banged. i'll bang them, just not date them.
I never make decisions without first consulting my parents. Me: "Hey parents, what should this guy do?" Parents: "Ask for pics!" Me: "Ok!" It depends how long they were dating and how long its been since they were no longer dating.
First day at work and seen this sweetie pie, hug here and there. Is dating my boy that got me the job.
Typically one should not venture into the abyss of a "Bros" already chartered territory. That's at least how I look at it.
Obviously only a problem if it is a problem with your bro. Dating more than 1 month is treading into risky water, but only him having actual feelings for the b**** would make it a violation of the code.
I don't know why but I had to laugh when I read this. I think I could actually hear you saying this in my head. I agree though that, IMO, you should leave alone a girl that a friend had something with. In the end, it just causes problems if you ask me. But if your friend isn't someone you really value as a friend, do what you may. Who is to stop you.
what if she is pretty hot? has a great ass. and is coming on to you hard core and basically tells you she wants to bone?then what are you going to do tough guy?
If one of my friends got with my ex right now, I'd be upset. But we dated for over 2 years and have only been broken up for 2 months. On the other end... recently I've been hanging around one of my best friends high school sweetheart. But I did let him know when it started. They've also been broken up for 4 years and he lives in another state.
The way I see this, and why you posted this, is you already have it in your mind to go out with this girl OR you already have. Why post it for feedback? You feel guilty about it and the more responses on here that you see that say "go for it" the more it eases your guilt. Why do you feel guilt? Because you know it's WRONG!!!!!! Reverse the situation. Would you want your so called "good friend" messing around with a girl you dated, and more to the point, a girl you once had feelings for? If you've already messed around with this girl, in my opinion, you're THE worst kind of friend. I say good riddance to people like that. I would NEVER want to be friends with you. However, if you've been able to restrain yourself thus far, and you think you may have feelings for this girl, the honorable and right thing to do is to go to your friend and explain the situation to him. If he says "go for it" and gives you his approval, than you're free to move forward. If he has to think about it the answer is no. If he says "no" you have a choice to make. What's more important, this girl you may or may not have feelings for, or your friend and his feelings about the situation? And your friendship with this guy?
