said this before- why do you want to be a girls friend? That only last until she's in a serious relationship. She won't give a damn about her "best guy friend" when she's engaged/married.
Lol, so you're saying that you're Alex Smith and she's looking for Colin Kaepernick? In all seriousness, try to convince her to be friends with benefits. Tell her that you can make it work and then some emotional attachment on her part may develop. If not, time to move on my man.
Just go the other way, she is desperate for your affection but not in the way you want it to be given.
You just have to forget about the girls that don't care about you. Like the bad religion by frank ocean, "I can never make em' love me" "unrequited love, is nothing but a one cult, cyanide in my styrofoam cup" "its a bad religion, to love someone who can never love you, only bad religion can make you feel the way i do" Why waste your time and break your heart over someone who doesn't give you, nearly the **** you give, about them? Idk why, i still do it my self. Truth is though your only killing you self while there probably completely unaffected. In order for there to be a real relationship, a good one, two must both love each other equally. It can't be lopsided or even tilted, wether one loves the other just a bit more, or one loves the other that doesn't know there name. It just doesn't work well for you, if your the one giving more love. Find that girl who cares about you as much as you care about your friend zone friend, thats the one.
You drove to Dallas/Austin to see her and she didn't give you any? That's a sign right there to get the hell out. Move on and find someone that will appreciate you. Hoping for something is gonna make you waste a lot of damn time.
Dude, you you why she doesnt have many friends? Because she only calls them when she wants something. next time she calls, tell her you're busy.
I said the next time she call, turn up the porno movie where the girls moan uncontrollably and answer and said, " i'm a little busy right now" and wait for her respond and hang up
Stop waisting your time/money. Once you're in the friend zone, you're not coming out. Think about any girl you considered only a a "friend". Your feelings about them were never going to change, unless perhaps they got some rebuilts. ...Perhaps looking into a pecker extension . You will meet someone else. So many girls out there. You make it hard to meet someone if you're hung up on someone else.
I remember my first experience with the opposite sex and that tingly feeling in my peen. Ah, the foolishness of young love. So many mistakes, so many lessons. So little puss play. Before you know it, you're friendzoned and she's telling you an amusing anecdote about how she just blew her best friend's boyfriend. Now when I see her pictures on facebook I'm just like "Jesus, What did you ever see in that woofer". Perspective is a life saver.
Personally i really don't believe in the process of courtship. I guess for some people it would work, the waiting, the get to know you, the platonic blah blah. But in my case, i could say just find someone whose willing to have sex with you and take it from there. That's how i started with my girl, we banged because we were horny, then later on she asked if we could try for a serious relationship. I said "Aight, let's try and see where this takes us." We've been together for 6 years now.
If you had to guess, then what percentage of guys who were friendzoned after coming out with their feelings to a girl actually remain friends after all that? You can never really go back to just the friends part after that. She will always have the upper hand and she knows it. She has you whipped. It will become this one-sided friendship where you are trying to be the friend who will do anything for her and she knows you will do anything for her so she will just abuse it even if she doesn't know she's doing it. Like your supposed to go back to friends like you were before any of it happened. What a joke. Move on. That's the gamble you take when you come out to her....either her taking it to the next level or losing the equal friendship as then it just becomes the unequal friendship with you becoming the smuck.
Agreed The second you developed feelings and Expressed them The friendship was officially over Rocket River
