Have to agree with this guy. Attention is free. If thats what she wants, its a good thing. Everyone wants to feel special. Maybe when she was raised, nobody paid too much attention to her and thats what she wants in her man. A relationship is about compromise. There's plenty of times that I dvr'ed the rockets games to go to the mall with my wife and just look around; and trust me, she loves to look. They're also has been plenty of times that she has gone to Texans, rockets, and astros games with me. Spending time is good when you have the right balance. Also, they're has been times when we sit in opposite rooms and watch our seperate shows, and thats ok also. I am a man jusk like any other, but I think being there for your significant other when they need you the most and still being able to do things that you don't like or seem "un-manily" makes you a stronger person and a better man.
So, you offered to take your girlfriend of several years to go and chill at Target on her birthday?! First of all, LMAO. Second, you have to do better. I mean, Target? Seriously? It doesn't take money to be thoughtful. But it does lake thought. LOL. And third, LMAO. Good luck pimpin.
Is it possible your gf met someone and she looking for a way to break up with you so she can be with someone else. Or maybe she's preggo.
1. You're posting personal e-mails between you and your gf on Clutchfans... Sounds like your relationship can't be that serious. 2. That Promise Ring seems like a bad idea now, doesn't it? 3. She calls the LIVING room, the LOVING room... NICE!
If you're under 18, promise rings are stupid because there's a 99% chance the relationship isn't going to work. If it does, great, but the ring is still stupid. If you're over 18 and give a girl a promise ring, GTFO.
Is she real??? did you just make up this letter??? Lollllllll If you arent paying attention to your woman and she has made it known to you especially on her birthday...i have some bad news buddy...she has obviously festered over this for a while and finally got the courage to tell you... Two things can happen after that: 1. either you become more receptive to her... 2. she finds someone that will be more receptive to her...
bobmarley has been very impressive in this thread. It's hard to find genuine advice on here. You should listen to what he has to say. Guys get away with doing this a lot (the end of the clip): <iframe width="560" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/N007irODH9s" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>
In the other thread he said pretty much the same thing, in the effect that you shouldn't ask relationship advice on clutchfans, where people brag about fapping. I laughed outloud though. :grin:
