Find a girl like that. Could you see yourself dealing with this crap when the Rockets are in the playoffs? Answer carefully.
I did try to spend time with her. I asked if she wanted to go to Target just to chill. I said I have a $10 gift card from Target. Let's see if we can't find you something. She was like no. I don't want you spending your gift card on me. The gift card was a Christmas gift from my Mother. Her words were something like that money was not earned. If you get me a present it better be from your hard-earned money. (I don't know if she was kidding . I told her jokingly what if I win the lottery? The money is not earned. she didn't like that one bit) I even offered to go get ice cream. I offered to get a cake. Her excuse was "I've had enough sweets for today"....On a side not I didn't even know the Rockets were on ESPN last night. I even asked her nicely if it's OK If I can watch a little bit of the game. She said it was fine she didn't care. She was in the living room on her laptop with her headphones. I could tell she was tired and she put her laptop down and said she was sleepy and went into the bedroom. I only caught the 3rd quarter. and I fell asleep midway through the 4th quarter.
In a relationship that doesn't matter. You cannot project your likes and dislikes onto your partner. You have to understand and act upon what their needs are independent upon your own.
Red Alert! Red Alert! That means, no you cannot watch the game. It is my birthday! Dude, why do you ask her if you can do things for her? It sounds like she wants you to take charge and show her a good time. She wanted you to man handle her last night, but instead you fell asleep during a Rocket's game. WEAK SAUCE. Man up! Cook your woman a nice dinner then when you are done throw all the dishes to the ground and make dirty love to her on top of the table. I bet she was even down for hathaway.
Forget that. The Rockets screwed to pooch with this whole Comcast mess. I owe them nothing this season. Get your mess on and then watch the game after you have overcome her so bad she is in a sex coma.
Color me shocked that a BBS poster doesn't realize that watching a game instead of paying attention to their girl on their birthday is a bad thing. And color me even more shocked that the majority of posters don't see this as a bad thing and the woman is just being a whiny b****.
Wow I've been down this road before several years ago when I was younger. It's gonna be a bumpy ride man.
If he can get a hot girl, then he can also get a hot nice girl. No? I'm applying rigorous logic here.
I've tried to take charge on many instances but she feels like she has to be in control. If im in the kitchen, she will probably say your doing it wrong. Move let me do it. Go sit down and watch your game.
Taking that one thing and isolating it from the rest of what was said about how they spent that day (with him trying to do different things and her shooting them all down), I would agree with you. As it is though... a man can only take so much female passive-aggressiveness in a day. I would have thrown in the towl and just watched the game too.
You must not be a good cook. Sorry. Spoiler You should have just ate the box till your face went numb and pounded it raw.
You should have just done it without asking her. This pisses them off more! Sad to see you, one of my old ClutchFan friends... being treated like this, man. My condolences, but... not to make light of your situation, from all the stuff above, I believe:
