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Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by London'sBurning, Nov 14, 2012.

  1. Rocketman95

    Rocketman95 Hangout Boy

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    Well, if we're just basing it on experience, mine would tell me the same thing. Of course, my wife now left her husband very honestly and without any sort of cheating going on. Not all relationships end because one of the parties was unfaithful.
     
  2. moestavern19

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    Pretty random hypothetical, but I think the reason someone would be more hurt by it being a member of the same sex would be that it devalues you on the gender rung, taking away your validity as a man or woman and possibly unearthing a severe case of low self esteem when viewed as inferior to a member of your own gender.

    Pretty primitive way of thinking, but not unlike most Americans feel because of the way they've been raised to value aesthetics and talent above personal expression and individualism.
     
  3. Haymitch

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    I've used this line before. I mostly meant it, too. What I actually meant was "I could see myself being with someone like you, but not actually you. And before that happens, I would like to test out other vaginas."

    So, I would heed the advice given by others that perhaps you should begin to move on, as hard as that may be.
     
  4. thegary

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    you don't love "a lot." love is directly connected to your subconscience and the amount you have to give is relevant only to your ability to give it.
     
  5. thegary

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    no, of course you can't, because you have no control over it.
     
  6. thegary

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    no it isn't, i doubt you've even seen it. not trying to put you down, just saying that your "canvas" is far from open/blank. it is filled with many, many things you have know idea about.
     
  7. London'sBurning

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    Spoke with my sister about it. She did the same crap to her now husband when they first dated. Not that I expect to hear it from my sister but I'm sure she didn't get the D while they took a break. It doesn't mean it'll work the same for me but I'm in a better mood. Getting some calls from my bros to hang out after work too. Not so lonely anymore.
     
  8. Air Langhi

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    You say that, but once girls start getting closer to 30 their biological clocks start ticking and they will settle for what they can get. Cause once you go past 30 that panic starts to hit them and pretty soon they are 36 and alone.
     
  9. thegary

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    My hole, I'll get my hole, I'll get my hole
    Get my hole, get my hole and I'll find out more
    It's a choo choo train, a rocket launch
    If we have a hormone race
    I'm bound to finish first

    Can you see in the dark?
    Can you see the look on your face?
    The flashing white light's been turned off
    You don't know who's in your bed

    It takes more than ****ing someone
    You don't know to keep warm
    Did you really think that a **** at half speed
    You'll find your love in a hole?
     
  10. percicles

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    Get some break-up sex from her before she takes off to Australia!
     
  12. peleincubus

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    you want to settle down around 36??? you will be old as hell by the time you have kids. i was 29 when i had my son a few years ago and im thankful im not older.
     
  13. SwoLy-D

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    Why do people continue to specifically point out some age, like something magical happens with their mind or body at midnight of the day they turn? :confused:

    We are all different in that we mature differently. AGE is only a measurement of how long you've been alive. It is not a specific point for determining how or when things are done. :eek:
     
  14. London'sBurning

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    We're still going to sleep together. We're still talking even after I blew up her phone with texts last night. She wasn't even upset about it and was kinda glad I did. She won't be leaving until next September anyways. So we're still on good talking and sexing terms.
     
  15. AroundTheWorld

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    No, what was said is true. It has to do with women's biological clock.
     
  16. moestavern19

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    Many things that I am open to.
     
  17. AroundTheWorld

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    Good!

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  18. SwoLy-D

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    But not at a specific age like they point out. :cool: It might be "around" that age... but not that specific point. I've met plenty of females whose "biological clocks" aren't "ticking" for the stuff we've discussed.

    London's Burning, thanks for that well-thought-out response. I see you kind of sort of realize what you both want. Go with that.
     
  19. thegary

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    i know you are. just realize how far you have to go. this will give clarity to the things you can access.
     
  20. KDJ3

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    Did anyone else understand this post?
     

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