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My best friend's widow getting remarried

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by heypartner, Oct 27, 2012.

  1. sammy

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    Everyone is quick to judge. The CF mob mentality never ceases to amaze me. It makes it hard for anyone to post anything of significance without being disrespected. Sure, everyone is entitled to their opinion but calling her a slut, w****, b**** is outta line. SMH.

    I don't agree with heyp posting a picture of them though. I doubt they gave him consent to do so.
     
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  2. JayZ750

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    CF can certainly go overboard, but there seems to be no point to this thread other than to discuss the merits of her quick remarriage. Ipso facto the point of the thread is precisely to judge.

    My personal view is that she remarried too quickly. I can see the maternal instincts ticking, though. There's all kinds of issues associated with having children late. Nonetheless, 3 months is an awful short amount of time to grieve, find new love and get married. I think the word w**** is thrown around way too loosely. I think the amount of money she makes has almost no bearing on the story, and heyp's continued use of throwing it around is, frankly, weird.
     
  3. Classic

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  4. SwoLy-D

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    I have two questions, not sarcastic at all, since you said you're not looking for responses:

    1. Does Natasha read CF.net? :confused: (you say 'Cheers' to her like she would read this BBS)

    2. Why would you post her personal photo with her name?

    I am with the "it's so early to remarry, it seems fishy" crowd. Congratulations to them, but... seems a bit too personal to post stuff about someone like this, no matter how happy you are about them. Personal stuff is personal... unless... she's a public figure. :eek:
     
  5. Honey Bear

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    You guys are idiots for ruining my return to the rap scene by speculating about someone who does not know you exist. Live your own life and let others live theirs.

    Heyp is sucking you into his trap of loneliness and emotional flaccidity.

    Don't go there.
     
  6. ynelilvs99

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    Ditto
     
  7. ynelilvs99

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    I have found, obviously this is my own personal observation, that men who are particularly impressed with how much a woman makes oftentimes do not make much at all themselves
     
  8. ima_drummer2k

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    Kind of creepy to even start this thread, IMO. Could've made the whole thing a hypothetical question instead of posting names and pictures...
     
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  9. DBrunk01

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    Why is she taking the photos next to a hobbit in tall grass and weeds? It looks more like she accompanied Martin Freeman to the set of The Walking Dead. Why is anyone's guess.
     
  10. KingCheetah

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    Obviously too soon -- if they were married 3 months after he died then they were together when he was still alive.
     
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    Possibly. But there's no way to know for sure.

    It's also possible that the husband wanted that to be the case, and knowing that he was dying suggested that. Maybe they came to the agreement that would happen.

    He was sick for a long time, the grieving can actually start before the physical death.

    I don't know what happened. She didn't leave him while he was still alive, and it sounds like he was happy with the support she gave him.

    So without knowing more, I'm not ready to call her names or say it's a bad thing.
     
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    If it's so obvious, then how do you explain the fact that she makes six figures a year? We're not talking about some waitress or school teacher here people, & i doubt h.p. would be vouching for her if she were.
     
  14. Mr. Brightside

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    Where can I meet a broad that makes six figures?
     
  15. IBTL

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    You know the usual.. funeral homes.. hospices..

    THe OP should change title to say something like 'if you died today, how would you feel about your SO getting knocked up and married 3 months from now ?'
     
  16. Daedalus

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    Timing seems a little fast but only they know the truth. I will not judge but my eyebrows were raised.

    My parents were happily married for over 30yrs until my mother passed away in 2001. My dad, now closer to 80 than 70, took it extremely hard (his eyes will still tear-up at the unexpected mention of her name) - he approached my brother and i a few years after her death to ask our feelings on his getting re-married - we gave our blessing. He has now married twice since then.

    The first was to a 35yr old Swedish woman...lasted only a year.
    The second was a 41yr old Japanese lady, lasted 4yrs...divorced this summer.

    Yeah, papa's a playa!
     
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  17. rezdawg

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    Repped.
     
  18. Fullcourt

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    3 months? wow.
     
  19. rezdawg

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    Two scenarios here:

    1) She was seeing this guy before her husband passed without the husband knowing about it.

    2) She and her husband had discussions about her dating another man, either towards the end of his life or shortly after his death.

    Obviously, if the answer is #2, then she shouldnt be judged so harshly...although, I would like to think that if I was in that situation, my wife would grieve a little bit more than to just move right along like that.

    If the answer is #1, then she should be judged harshly.
     
  20. Nook

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    The OP is creepy...
     

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