Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a personality disorder[1] in which the individual is described as being excessively preoccupied with issues of personal adequacy, power, prestige and vanity. This condition affects one percent of the population.[2][3] First formulated in 1968, it was historically called megalomania, and it is closely linked to egocentrism. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder
Ah...I looked it up on the youtubes and all I found were meathead douchebags posing in front of a mirror.
Ronny has posted far more "Ronny like" threads than this, fellow members beset with boredom. What I want to know is, how does this statement jive? She's simple at heart and an unconditional lover of great sophistication. How can an unconditional lover of great sophistication be simple at heart? My personal experience is that the two usually doesn't go hand in hand. The "lovers of great sophistication" I had relationships with back when I ran amok amongst the females of the species tended to have complicated hearts, which could be groovy, but also could be a pain in the arse. Perhaps Ronny has found a gem. That, or a really good substance he should share with the rest of us.
Isn't that just another word for w****? ♪ You're a HO, you know you're a HO, how do I know, because you told me SO... ♫ "polyamorous" my 4ss... (well, no, not really, only belongs to Mrs. SwoLy)
the search for beauty is magisterial, but it is both malleable and completely beyond your ability to understand.
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Oh, well, #$*#&, everything is a #*#&$ disorder. Can't we just screw all that and call him a pretentious and selfish ahole? :grin:
Love is about acknowledging you're a vulnerable Human being. Back in the hippie days ppl just sat around and got high so love was a free flowing concept with all kinds of orgys and counterculture philosophies to validate doing nothing with your life. But nowadays, its translated into desperation and hopping on the first train that comes your way, no matter where its heading. Girl on an internet message board replied to me? Great, let's get married. Work associate not hideous and in same field as me? Great, let's get married. Same view on abortion and reads Nicholas sparks novels? Great, let's be sexually exclusive for the rest of our lifetime. Without titles, I can't guilt people into liking me. But for those who intimidate men due to a combination of beauty and say, talent or self assuredness, the screening process is much more vigorous and cutthroat. They know they're entitled to a certain cut of cloth and without the safety net or connections girls from affluent families have, love is not as straight forward as pledging yourself to an ideal man who will 'inevitably' come your way. Having a sophisticated palette doesn't mean one needs a certain price point in life. Too many instances and metaphors today of relationships being a business arrangement between ppl on certain 'social levels' and for those who don't need to play by the rules, you can see its all Bs. With deli girl dancer, you have someone who is so intuitive she knows very quickly what a guy has to offer, or wants, from her so there is little ambivalence of how to act once she's made her decision. All her cards are on display. It all becomes unconditional, for the greater good, and the dissolution of the ego. At the same time, we keep it simple. Don't overthink, laugh a lot, make love two or three times a day, she doesn't care about the yacht or going where the scene is.. its just chill out man. Chill out.
It's easy to throw out labels when you don't have the opportunities or abilities of others. If you could just floor, and I mean floor, a certain kind of beauty .. one that proves the evolution of humanity and just wants to surrender now that she's seen it all and reached the mountain top .. I doubt you would compartmentalize. Actually, I know you wouldn't.
