Not trying to sound rude, but what makes you so sure she's that into you. You stated you were 44 and she was 20. Unless she is uggerry I don't understand why. Unless you have a 3rd leg going on she walked into or something.
I admit, a German "nanny" sounds pretty appetizing. But the word for "nanny" in German is "Kindermädchen," which makes me picture this:
yes i know, this thread is way TMI. i was kinda wasted and feeling lecherous. her boobs were in my face as she was picking up stuff. she was looking right at me, she knew where i was looking. she was smiling and carrying on a conversation. i just wanted to do very nasty things to her. i hope i didn't ruin your image of me as a teetotaling prude. but in all fairness, i would like to do dirty things to you as well.
I can't speak for anyone else, but man I would jump on that opportunity as soon as/as much as I could (assuming there was no chance of getting "caught"). This is actually a big "fear" for me regarding marriage...I know I'll have more opportunities after tying the not (no plans at the moment of doing so, FYI). Girls from Germany are so openly flirtatious...it's no big deal for them. They love it. I love them. Just do it. One question: is she one of those milk maid-shaped German girls? Even if that's the case I'd prob still go ahead with it.
How likely that your wife finds out? Can you live with possibly hurting and losing your wife? Most folks publicly say they regret flings, but I know some close friends that have his it from their wives and do not regret it.
They only regret it if the other party finds out. If you know you can get away with it (meaning: no feelings hurt, no consequences), then I'm sure most guys wouldn't have any regrets. To generalize, there's a lot of European spouses who aren't really hurt by promiscuous behavior (not that they condone it); they know they're still loved and a fling isn't serious. The thought is: if you see something you want to try, why restrict your urge? Compare that to the "typical" US relationship: you've made a choice to, in theory, stick together -- even if that means artificially resisting natural urges. It's commendable, but personally, I can't decide which culture is "more right/wrong". It's scary to think you are giving up options, but it's also scary to risk being alone.
My thoughts exactly. I can't believe these grown folk here on CF are taking this thread seriously. By page 2, after reading his comments I realized he's just taking the piss out of folks on here. At least Ronny's threads can provide a chuckle once in a while, this one is just silly.
You're seriously trying to give him advice on cheating?? The grown azz man(44 IIRC) says doing it outdoors is his preference for an act like this-cheating on his wife with ze Fraulein, and you're taking him seriously? C'mon man, this is just a less funny Ronny-ish thread.
