I think there is but Im corny like that. I had my true love and let her of the hook. She was who I thought she was.
True love is a tricky thing. I can recall at least a few females that I thought I was "in love with" including one now.
I thought my true love was my high school sweetheart. I met up with her last year for the first time since right after high school. Although still absolutely gorgeous, I'm damn glad it didn't work out. Just not the same and very uppity even though she's with a man who is about to lose everything due to living beyond their means. Two weeks later I went on a date with a girlfriend from Jr High lol, recently divorced and we hit it off like I never thought we would. I have found it, I believe in it, and I also found my new best friend. I couldn't imagine not seeing her everyday of my life. Some believe, some don't...I feel blessed.
True love exists. I dont think there is only one person I can fall in love with or only one person who can love me. Case in point: I have no doubt my ex boyfriend loved me, but he was not the one for me. On the other hand I did love my boyfriend before him, but he did not love me. I know I can and probably will love again. You become more realistic with time. You get a clearer idea of what u want... That's the goal anyway.
Definitely depends on whether the opposite party feels the same (you never can tell; never take what one says on the surface as fact). You don't want to lose a "sure thing" (a significant other that you are currently attached with) as long as you're happy, but I often wonder if those who have been [seemingly happily] married for years ever play the "what if" in their minds or how they dealt with it (I'll answer that: cheating and divorce). But further hesitation is knowing (if you're mature enough) that you don't want to be risking defeat; we're stubborn, in theory. If you're relatively happy now with someone, you can't fathom how you could possible fall out of love. No one wants to be stuck with nothing. What was the cheesy line from The Bucket List? Something like "I loved being married...problem is I love being single, too." Let's make a change once and for all..."finding your true love" makes more sense as "finding your best friend who you are attracted to and can have sex with."
