It seems as though every pretty girl worth a damn out there has at any given time 4 to 5 dudes clinging onto her every move. Said pretty girl can just pick and choose when to hang out with these dudes because she is so damn pretty. In turn, each time she hangs out or texts these dudes she reaffirms their belief that "it's totally gonna happen". To me it is just not worth it to enter into this 4-5 dude posse and be the guy who does anything the girl wants just to try and have a shot. I swear each time I meet a nice good looking girl, I find out she has this group of dudes who feel the same way. It seems you must either put in this insane amount of time and effort just to be perpetually in the dude posse or never try to begin with. After the last few broads I've met, I'm beginning to feel I just shouldn't even try. Does it ever end? Are there nice attractive girls out there who don't use their status to manipulate every dude around them? /rant
Nope. once they know they got the look, they ain't goin to stop. but i'm not saying every girl out there are like this.
I am. Most girls are skank hoes. However, the best ones are the ones who were just cheated on. Usually, they hate cheaters and are not shady, they are vulnerable, and they will see you as the best thing in the world after coming from their ex. Hope it helps!
The less you pay attention and are non-nonchalant about these pretty girls with so many admirers craving for her attention, the more you will stand out. Balance my friend..balance. Show some attention but don't drown her in it.
Don't put the putang on a pedestal! The guy that treats them the worst is the one who always nails them.
Ignore her for a while. I'm sure you have a life that doesn't revolve around her, so let her see that. Let her know that her looks aren't going to cut it and that she's going to actually have to try to win you over. Stand out, bruh.
just remember no matter how pretty/beautiful she is there is at least one guy out there tired of her ****
actually, not true. I'm above average looking and I too at times have problems in picking up a girl. Some girls automatically assume I'm a player and believe I'm just teasing and messing with their feelings. When instead I'm genuinely interested in them and want to get to know them. Not trying to boast or anything, I'm just being honest.
How old are you? Are you looking to get laid by anything attractive or do you have higher standards for getting one in a long-term relationship? For me, once I started focusing on my career, I didn't have the time to go out with friends to meet women. After a while though, I attended social events like company mixers, weddings, get-togethers at 4th of July, etc. These types of places usually were great for conversation and women weren't on their guard like at bars. Plus, they usually were accomplished in their fields, had great self-esteem, and were mature enough to not play games or have a posse of men wrapped around her thumb. Even if most of the women you meet at the above are in relationships, you can become friends with them and they'll introduce to more women. Build your career and your personality (have hobbies, know how to converse with poise, try new things) first and do the above. I'm sure you'll find someone. Other random places to meet women: -Whole Foods, Central Market, farmer's markets -Cruises -Language classes (like Italian and Arabic) -Conventions and trade shows
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