College - What to do/How to?

I feel you to the nth degree. I'm in the same boat

 

Y'all got room for one more on the boat?

Just got out of long-term relationship, wanting to let us both live college how we want, to put it shortly. She was more shy then I was; turned out she had secretly liked me even before I finally manned up.

I just don't know why I'm like this. I lack confidence every which way. I feel like I'm a bore, and I don't feel that physically attractive. Like below-average. Maybe can get some focus into working out at the gym, swimming more. I think that'd help.

 

Go after some of the girls that aren't attractive first. Since you aren't attracted to them, you won't feel like "oh my god, should i say this or that?" Keep practicing this until you feel comfortable enough to let a conversation flow.

If you don't want to do that, then take 5 shots of vodka to loosen you up. People speak more freely when alcohol is in the system. (you probably know this)


And like other people said before, you have nothing to lose. There are a lot of hot girls and they are scattered all over UH!

 

Study Groups/Group Assignments, Student Organizations, and House Parties are the easiest ways.

 

Texas Southern University, bro. Right next door to UH haha!

I've always been chubby. Frankly, I think that's where all my low self-esteem stems from. So, I'm hoping focusing on cardio will help me slim down, try and eat better.

Saying it and doing it are two different things entirely, but I need to at least try to get the workouts going. I'm shooting to be able to swim 3-5 times a week. I've got a pool in the back-yard.

TSU has a gym; might need to look into that.

 

Haha, yeah. My sis went there.

Would've gone too, but don't have my major. TSU is certainly different, to be honest. Not used to the atmosphere.

You too man. You're better off than me, from the looks of it.