Just nut up and talk. I was a fairly shy guy when I got to college, but then I realized, what the hell do I have to lose? Nothing That's the correct answer to that question.
My ex-gf was in a class of mine, but it was 300+ students, so there wasn't a good chance of making small talk with her. Eventually i just caught up to her after class, as she was walking to the parking lot, and just asked her for her number. Lasted just over 3 years together. For the most part, a girl knows right off the bat whether they'll say yes or no, so just go for it. I think it helps if : - You speak with clarity and some confidence, not necessarily rico suave confidence, but just don't be a mumbling fool and scare her off. - Catch her at a time when she's alone, but don't corner her creeper style. I dont think they want to be put on the spot like that with their friends or in front of others. However, they still want it to be public enough to feel some sense of security. Personally, i think i said something like, "hi, im in class with you, and i just wanted to know if i could have your number and call you some time?" I dont think you can go wrong with something direct like that. Just mean what you say and smile.
"Hey what's your name.. I'm ______" "Good first day of school?" "What year are you?" "Oh I'm a freshman, what's your major?" "Oh my friend said that was one of the toughest majors here.. I feel like I'm in the presence of greatness talking to you.." Do you like it? I'm undecided for now, just knocking out some general classes." etc. etc. Talking to people really isn't that hard. Just don't use a cheesy pickup line.
Anyways I talked to the girl. She was in the wrong class so I walked her to her class. Got her name but I completely forgot to get the #. Now I dont wanna like go up to her out of nowhere and seem like a stalker and ask for a number and ****.....damn lol..
Did you ask if she had Bieber Fever? You're taking this too seriously.. Be witty, look fresh, nothing else to it.
Well, first you have to talk to her, so keep it simple and don't rush it. You don't want to hurry the conversation along - making it seem akwardly rehearsed and uninviting. Outside of that, be yourself and talk about the weather.
Not a bad situation actually. Not at all. Now you have a reason to actually go up to her without being/feeling creepy. Start a conversation with her about what happened. It'll actually help you gauge her interest because now there's nothing in it for her, other than talking to you. If she keeps the conversation going, then she has some kind of interest. Ask her for her number at the end of the conversation.
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You are right it does. But man, its not cause they are attractive, its cause I never tried to actually get with them and stuff like that. I always wanted to wait till college but i find it difficult to go up and talk to them for some reason... I don't feel like i'm funny and it messes up when i do talk to them...
