talk to her about class if shes in a class with you. "study groups" are usually a good way to get to know people. If she is just some random girl around campus, you could either go with the "are you in ______ class with Professor ________? Oh no? well you look really familiar. My name is _______ by the way." or you could just man up and say hi and work a convo from there.
slow and steady. talk to them all, make hemfeel comfortable. Just dont be overly nice, you got to seem like you can careless about getting with them. In the end youll most likely fail and jack it till you sleep
lol First year is nothing in the great scheme of things, and to be honest all you really have to do is be nice to people and not get a *****ty rep. Eventually you will find others drawn to your consistency and confidence. At the end of the day it's all about, and I know this is a cliche, being yourself honestly and sincerely. Confidence is everything- Just saying whatever is on your mind is actually not a bad approach, as long as our articulate it clearly. "Hey, my name is Paul, and I saw you across the room. Just letting you know you're definitely a 8/10 and has got it going on. Let's hang out sometime." Done. I have no advice if your goal is just to get laid fast. Well....there's alcohol, but that's another discussion
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Just do it. Seriously, it's a numbers game. You might get shot down a lot, but that won't bother you as much as not doing it at all. You have to do it! Also, don't be too complimentary. Comes across as weak for some reason.
Thank you lol. I am not out of shape. And I guess ya'll are right. JUST MAN UP. I will. Whats the worse she gonna do? Say no.. oh well.
Just go out. Be nice. You're not gonna get anyone chilling at home. In college as long as you go out it should be fine. There are so many girls out there.
Just ask her a question about class and go from there. Hell, asking for a spare pen has worked for me......trust me, anything will work. If she gives you one word answers to everything you throw at her, then take the hint, she's just not interested in talking to you...... If you are too shy for starting a convo, then join a bunch of student clubs/organizations, there is always people looking to make friends there.....
