So We started College today. And I was wondering How can I approach a girl without making it awkward in Class? or even out of class like around the campus? Usually I only talk to girls that I'm introduced to by friends or somehow we meet or something. So its harder for me to just go up to a girl and say something. So how can I approach a girl without making it awkward and what to say? Please Help Lol.
Just do whatever the hell you want and wing it. Everyone has their own method for picking up girls, we can't help you. Experience is invaluable.
Follow her back to her car and yell out "This isn't where I parked my car!" and ask if she can drive you around the parking lot to find your car.
haha some idiot girl did that to me last year...it was super awkward because she was in her sweaty softball clothes and half naked...:grin:
Join student organizations. Great way to meet people in general. Bagged me a few atheist and libertarian girls just cuz I knew more about that stuff than the others in the group and that got them off.
Isn't there some youtube channel with 3 guys who just act like dumbasses and pick up chicks? watch those, copy what they do. In the few I've seen, the key seems to (1) be somewhat funny, even if insulting, (2) be creative - don't start something and then have nothing to say as the conversation moves forward, and (3) do it a lot. You will strike out a ton, but you only need a few numbers. I have no idea what freshman college kids would be interested in these days. but pick a topic that might be of interest to someone in your age bracket, then start a conversation about it. Justin Bieber? Seems like an easy one - "hey, how about that Bieber. You have the Bieber fever?... oh, me neither, that dude sucks" or.. "yeah, I love the Biebs. How about song x", then proceed by singing the song, or doing some other stupid ****. finish by asking for her number and seeing if she is going to x,y,z event later in the day. Approach might be the hardest part. So target maybe girls walking to class alone, and then catch-up to them as they pass you by? the above example would even work if said girl was listening to music on her phone, no?
What class is it? Does it seem like it'd be reasonably difficult for most college freshmen? If so, read ahead, learn as much about the material as you can through stuff like Khan Academy, and some time when the two of you are in a social setting (or just walking out of class), as her what she thinks about the class.. If she gives you an indication that she thinks she'll have a tough time with it, tell her that it's pretty easy for you since you already know so much about it, and offer to help her study. Or, just grow a pair, make some small talk at an appropriate time, and ask her if she wants to hang out some time and if she says yes, get her number.
Just start referring to yourself in the 3rd person. "Shayan wants to know 'when you gonna let me tap that?'"
Get over yourself and talk to her. She'll have forgotten your name long before you finish crying yourself to sleep.
