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So when can you tell a girl is into you?

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by fchowd0311, Jul 23, 2012.

  1. Fullcourt

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    You can just tell when there is interest. I don't really know how to describe it, but I've always been able to easily sense a certain tension that either exists or doesn't.
     
  2. AroundTheWorld

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    Sorry dudebrah...you are here:

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    http://www.laddertheory.com/

    Come on...at least a picture of her back? We have standards here!

    That's actually good advice. Easy way to find out. Just don't make it look creepy or awkward, just surprise her with the question, but appear casual about it, not tense.

    Good luck!
     
  3. TISNF

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    Just stay after class and talk to her as you are walking out and see if she wants to get lunch.
     
  4. pippendagimp

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    i don't see what the big deal is if she has a boyfriend. if the guy's puttin her feet to sleep....then he's got himself to blame and the girl is fair game.

    like pipdagimp.and.real.life.pimp always say...pls believe it unless ur game is tight and u trust her, don't bring her 'round me cause ima flirt.. :)
     
  5. vinsensual

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    I read 5 pages hoping hotballa would reveal how he knew OP was asian. Besides username of course.
     
  6. Big MAK

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    Whenever the nipple makes its first appearance.
     
  7. Yung-T

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    Whenever she eats a banana or lollipop in front of you and looks at you while slowly doing it. And her eyes will show the satisfaction.
     
  8. Jontro

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    Whenever she farts in your presence and doesn't attempt to hide/deny it.
     
  9. hotballa

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    My white girlfriend told me about how this Indian looking ex-Marine wearing an old TMac jersey has been hanging around her the last few days in community college. Plus some douchebag was texting her around midnight the other day. So I put two and two together.

    Hah j/k. Just look at the way OP and DudeWah talk about women. It's not the worst thing in the world to view them like that, just have to understand the position one puts themselves into if they stick with that.
     
  10. smr6

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    I met my girlfriend in an ethics class when we were both dating other people haha. I would just flirt with her subtly but I'm not the kind to ever cheat so I never made any moves or anything. I would just joke around with her and be myself and then a few months later in the summer we were both single so we went out for just a simple night of bowling and we just spent a long ass time talking about anything and everything and it just clicked from there.
     
  11. Manny Ramirez

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    Not much to add other than that, supposedly, a girl will know within seconds of meeting a guy whether she finds him "dateable". fchowd - I like you, mainly because you posted that brilliant video of getting blue balls with blue bally, but if this girl is really as hot as you say she is, she is probably already got a bf. As someone else pointed out, would you really want to be with a girl that is always getting hit on?

    Nonetheless, just try to play it cool. Be friendly but don't come across as anxious or needy. See what signals she gives you - if she likes you, she'll give you some signals. You just have to look for them.
     
  12. DudeWah

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    Once again, I'm waiting on your awesome view of how I talk about women.

    Coming for an incredibly weird/awkward Asian dude as yourself I really want to know.

    Please enlighten me.
     
  13. mvpcrossxover

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    ATW thnx for repping me but are u saying that u r goin to SJC or the OP?
     
  14. arjun

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    i always felt that a girl is into you when she takes the initiative to text you or fb chat you or call you...

    usually b****es want you to do all the work of starting the conversation so they have the power, they want you to reach out to them..even if they are into you. but after doing that a couple of times and you then you don't message her for a couple days...see if she messages you.

    teach em some lessons!
     
  15. Jontro

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    ATW is SirJackieChiles, which are basically DD's alternate monikers.
     
  16. krnxsnoopy

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    She sounds like a flirt.... Don't look to deep into it... The moment you start liking her is probably when she gets bored with you..

    Live life normally as if she is not there. Be nice to her but don't show interest. I'm saying this because in my opinion you probably like her more than she likes you. You always want the girl to like you more than she likes you. Both you and her will be "happier" this way. Control your emotions, don't turn into a sappy beta male.
     
  17. Nook

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    Hotballa is the LAST person to take advice about when it comes to women. He freely admits that he is awkward and does not even know basic female anatomy.

    I think that the girl really likes you, the problem is the boyfriend obviously. The best way to handle it is to invite her out in a casual setting, perhaps after class, etc.
     
  18. LCII

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    if you feel she's worth it, go for it...
     
  19. Joshfast

    Joshfast "We're all gonna die" - Billy Sole
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    ATW has saved you alot of thinking time with this link. It's 100% accurate and will help you immensely to understand the game.
     
  20. AroundTheWorld

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    Yes

    DaDakota

    Is

    My alternate

    moniker

    Rocket River
     

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