It shows the woman that she's expendable and not worth your time getting upset at. It also shows that you're mature enough to move on with your life and that she wasn't the focal point of it. If you get upset and get "revenge" on her, the woman that cheated on you will feel vindicated and think, "This is why I did this to that guy. He's too emotional and controlling." If you do nothing though and cut off all contact with her, she'll use her woman logic and think, "He doesn't even care enough about me to fight for me after I cheated on him." Either way you lose in her woman logic mind but at least in the latter, you avoid drama of your ex, her new lover and aren't stuck dwelling on it. After some time passes if she ever realizes what a huge mistake she made and her woman logic mind becomes normal, she'll be able to accurately reflect back and think how maturely you handled it. Besides people that cheat get what's coming to them on their own. Cheaters get cheated on. It comes full circle.
"stuffing her up"????? Dude, your splanation makes no sense. You cheating too. go with the FWB route and leave it at that. I might even tell her. Tell her you know and you don't care. She can either be your FWB or adios. Leave it up to her.
Did you possibly learned from my lesson?? Nahhhh. Checking in her phone is nothing emo, it's just further solidifying the facts for him. If he were to sneak peeks on her phone PRIOR to getting suspicion??? Yeah. That's a female/b**ch move/trait. But finding her ex's 'stang outside of her house at 4am is the wet cement.. clarifying with possible txts would be drying the cement. This world we live in isn't black nor white but a big ugly grey. It's all about context. He's already seen enough, but if seeing hardcore evidence of a booty text would slam this case shut, why continue to let it stir mentally?? I love this idea.. Just for the sheer unexpected-ness she'd experience.. I may even make a new thread with the stories of how I creatively broke up with girls that I found out were doing ya boy wrong. Very sorry to hear about all of this though. Cheating is a bish and for some dumb reason or the another creates an emotional toll on you no matter how close you are/were with the person. Just knowing that they had the nerve to gull you, period, is enough to volcano on a sloot. I don't think you should continue forward with this girl at all, but I trust you'll follow your gut instincts. Good luck, buddy.
I was distraught over a lost love once. I went into my favorite gas station across from my apartments to buy a pack of cigarettes. The foreign guy working there noticed my look of despair and asked about my troubles and I simply told him it was about a woman. He said something to me in French. I can't remember exactly what it was he said it meant, but it was along the lines of "b****es ain't ****" I like that guy.
Yeah bruh its time to move on don't play yourself. Your girl had the ex over on a "all girls night", no dice!
**** you Cheetah, if I said i didnt cheat, I ****ing didnt. Im gonna talk to her tomorrow about all this. I'll probably break up with her but it really is easiar said then done.
