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I'd do what both of these guys are telling you to do. She will be your **** buddy, and you stop doing the nice little things for her. But you pretend you still love her and talk about loyalty.
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I like RocketRiver's advice. What if she was always your f*** buddy, but you took it too serious and got oneitis? There is no revenge, then. It's just miscommunication for friends with benefits. Some girls just want a lay.
If your girl was loyal, she would never even take the chance of upsetting you by having an ex stay over without you. Even if there were other friends. She's young and dumb, I wouldn't waste my time.
Yeah it's possible she checks the hangout or her boy does. Either way... guy staying over is not cool and she shouldn't be hanging out with one in such a manner if she is committed to you. Why couldn't he have a friend give him a ride, call a cab or get one of her gfs to take her? The story is a tell tale sign.
<iframe width="560" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/dDlXTSiHWCs" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> I'll go with rocket river's advice and the other guy who said get with her best friend and I'll add her and her sister if she has one. =)
The whole... "Good Morning " was a test to see if you were upset and knew something. Now she is playing cover up. Don't even waste your time on this one, just leave dump her.
Love the title OP +10... anyway so yeah this sucks but there are several things going on. You have a right to be jealous and suspicious, on the other hand you don't want to find yourself thinking about her ....and whether she is with andres... maybe she's just getting trains run on her right now as I type this. you know you gotta free that out. So you need to check yourself for a second and shake off what is happening here. Dont get pissed. This is an emotional moment and emotional things can happen. First thing I would do is go run off a batch(jack off). that way you are thinking clearly. Next I would tell her in a nice way that it doesnt exactly look so good. Tell her that you will reach out to andres at some point and see her reaction. Even though you are showing that you are agitated you can perhaps see what her reaction will be. Then you can choose to contact andres. This has proven to work and in a few instances (as shown in lab studies) that andres will admit to either hitting it or some type of something past would anyone would deem cool. Getting answers from andres or her don't resolve the deeper issue that she may not be the one for anything long term.short term yes, perhaps long term no. Not because she is or isnt with andres or that she is a slut, it has to do more with your view of her and your place in the relationship. You are in a bad place in that sense. By the little bits and pieces sounds like maybe you like her more. I suggest you find the truth here as to what happened for what its worth, but you determine for sure if this girl really likes you a lot or not. Who likes who more?You will know this with your gut. If she doesnt like you more than you like her, than at some point or another you will be behind the 8 ball staring a stuff like this all the time. I'm just telling you now. Maybe this gal really likes you and this was an isolated instance and he really did sleep in other room. You have to be able to trust her and it can't be like this pretty much at all. This type of thing can happen maybe once or twice and your gut will tell you the truth. From there if she isnt liking you more than you like her, get laid a few more times and let her have andres or whoever else. It sucks but at that point she doesnt want you remember? That's okay too because there will be one that will. Once you find her then you won't have to worry about this kind of stuff. You need a girl where you are the mick jagger and she your groupie. Get her and she won't be jacking you around. You may want a challenge (I have tons of forever alone 40 year old friends that go for the challenges) and if you go the challenge route it will always be with women that like you less than you like them. That's fine too but at that point you remind yourself they are just strictly for sport fu**cking. You can't marry a challenge w****. You have to ask yourself right now what she is before you can know what to do next. but remember if you are spending this time and energy devoting it to sh**it things and sh**it thoughts that's nowhere good to be and you don't need to be thinking that way or have a 'relationship' where that is how you are feeling. You need to look at it from root level...ground up..
That's your confirmation right there. RR's way sound good and shoot a movie while you at it. Instant classic
that sounds like some bull****, man. if it really was legit she would have texted you letting you know what was going on beforehand. not responding to texts after 11 is really suspicious in this situation. even if she was leaning she would at least attempt to send you a coherent text. a "girl's night out" does not involve ex-boyfriends
