You did not have sex with a lesbian. A lesbian is only sexually attracted to women. And, you don't have the ability to seduce a homosexual woman any more than a man can seduce you, me, or any other straight male. However, as rocketsjudoka mentioned women have a wide range of sexual preference, but so do some men. The difference you see is more related to how others view that sexuality. To most, a bisexual male (or a male that ever has sexual feelings for men) is consider gay. So, the thought of men varying in sexuality is unsettling yet people are willing to accept that women can be partially attracted to men but mostly to other women or vice versa. Ronny, any open minded intelligent man should be able to grasp these concepts. It seems you've let your ego get in the way of a very basic understanding of sexual preferences and how they relate to societal norms. Plenty of guys have that awesome moment when they think they've turned a lesbian. Unfortunately, we mature and realize things aren't as cut and dry.
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Similar to what my friend said but his main passion in life is... "putting me in my place". I remember a time when everyone thought the world was flat and laughed at people who suggested otherwise. I remember a time when people said flying was only for the birds. I remember a time when the thought of women being the household earner would result in a man being stoned. The world is full of false pretenses based on people who didn't want to go above and beyond, push the envelope, and held firm to the status quo. In one sentence I'm not mature enough to realize things aren't so cut and dry, and in the other you say lesbians are only sexually attracted to females. I think that's a developed trait due to social patterns and emotional responses from different members of each sex. Let's take a well known lesbian couple. My chances of turning Ellen straight are close to none because of how unattractive and butch she is so she's become hardwired and preconditioned to see it as an inherent part of her. Her chemistry has legitimately changed. But with Portia de Rossi, it's very likely if she met me in her young 20s instead of someone else she would have never found the need to look for emotional connections elsewhere and discover her "lesbianism" during/after her first marriage to a guy. That began the chemical change. I think it's purely a matter of feminine attractiveness and how society responds to that. Being a highly emotional creature, that's what a lezzy responds to and is shaped by.
There are wide ranges in sexuality that can't be pinned to a single cause. Dudes **** mostly over looks and personal horniness. Women can have far more reasons to get down other than physical appearance. Booze, social status, wealth, time of month, revenge ****ing, daddy issues, guilt over some trivial yet meaningless event, boredom... To pin it down to "dudes or chix only" is simple minded.
Just to share, When my gf and i were just starting, she admitted to me that before my relationship with her, she had a short relationship with a female classmate and had some subtle physical "contact" with her lesbian best friend. For us this never became an issue, and years later i even discovered that her lesbian friend was now in a relationship with a man too. My point is, i guess it is really just true that women, if not all, are fickle as they come. And the reasons for the things they do and the choices they make pretty much can change thru time and reason (Hopefully all the right reasons).
Oh yeah, just to share another one again. I remembered that my brother had a close friend, whom by all means we can consider a butch, She had a pretty face, but had no semblance of a female figure and behaved like a boy and even played for her college basketball team. Then sometime when i was talking to her, I asked her "How's love life going?, how come i don't see you hooked up these days." Then she told me "Well, i'm waiting for your brother to court me.", then the two of us laughed. But you know, looking back at the friendship she and my brother have and how they looked up to each other, I could safely assume that somehow she meant it to some degree. That maybe perhaps if she was more attractive/feminine or so, maybe my brother could have made a move. I even asked my brother once about it, and he said "She is nice and we agree on alot of things, but it just sucks that she had to be too much of a butch."
Every girl on our girls basketball team in high school considered themselves lesbians but I had sex with probably half of them. I believe in the early years its an experiment thing, and a label thing. If you still consider yourself a lesbian at 30, well maybe you are. But that doesn't mean you are against Wang, as undoubtedly a dong would feel a whole lot different, NowutImsayinnnn?
Having an isolated homosexual experience doesn't make you bi-sexual or gay. So how would having an isolated heterosexual experience make you not gay/lesbian?
Thats how I see it too. Though I've gone away from figuring out the whole "Women Logic" thing. Useless really. You kinda just get what you get. Women got a whole lot more going on "under the hood" though than men. Still, women cheat, bend, adjust, protest, re-badge, change rules in any system they're in to feel "secure" in these things. Women want all the tolerance to expand themselves, in anything, without feeling "dirty" about it. And will go to great lengths to make everything into some "advocacy" or some "academic" sensitive social cause. To justify ANYTHING. Once women don't feel dirty and freakish, they're as shameless in their prowess and hypocritically douchy as any male they've ever castigated. In short Spoiler Whether its anatomical, biological, social or spiritual, women are as full of sh** if not further depths of sh** then men. They just carry it more "angelically". But at least they DO make it look better. :grin: What a crappy world it'd be if men had to be the standard bearers of aesthetic beauty and grace.
I've had my share. one was a couple that i was friends with and had several nights of fun. they would have never let one or the other be alone with me though it was always a "3" thing. they are still together and live in chicago though. they are both cool chicks, i should go visit sometime
Of all the lesbian couple I seen why one of them always look/act like a guy and the other one is good looking
Lesbianism is valid, there are genuinely some women who have never been awed or attracted to men, just as much as there are some men who are in fact thoroughly homosexual...no kind of attraction women. On a physical, romantic, sexual, or emotional level. I think alot forms of sexuality are very valid, especially when I see them with my own eyes. I believe people can be bisexuals, as well as pansexuals or asexual. I think person can exceedingly heterosexual, yet very much aromantic (unable to fall in love with people or build romantic relationships and intimacy). It might be quite shocking to some people to find out that some women are not all that interested in having kids at any points in their lives, while not all men are sexual hungry apes who want a Holly Madison type. Often, like human personalities, human sexuality comes with alot of quirks, yet society at times tries to fit people into a certain box or rigid routine to preserve some high standard of values (of twisted Judeo-Christian standards, not necessarily actual Judeo Christian values) It is true women are allowed to explore a greater degree of sexual fluidity in Western Civilization, yet alot of studies (esp. the Kinsey studies and historical culture studies) show that bisexuality and sexual fluidity in man of societies were more prevalent among men (-Greeks, Romans, many tribal societies, and even within the Catholic Church). Moreover, some have concluded in fact that possibly more men are bisexual, more so than women (it's just not as celebrated or formally expressed to people). I say this coming from a stance that I don't believe sexuality, especially in humans (and even some animals) is strictly for procreation. In fact, I've gotten to point where I believe the pleasure and passion is often greater than the aspect of procreation. Many people have fetishes (sexual) that are quite unrelated to procreation, while I don't think there necessarily unnatural. There's so many different ways to exhibit sexual expression. This might be kind of hard for the OP to understand, because of his pseudo "cool guy" personal and shallow lack of perspective.
One's the alpha, the other is the lipstick. What do lesbians always bring to a second date? Spoiler A U-Haul (tell that to any lesbian and they'll laugh)
