713.... Yes it's been 2 years, but you have to understand you guys are very young and girls do not think like you boys.. Sorry I cannot use the term woman and men in this situation.. You have only begun to grasp the concept of a sensual relationship.. It takes a lot of work to all of a sudden and get busy with a girl who probably hasn't been that way with anybody. Now that I think about it you young guys forgot how to woo and arouse the ladies... Damn internet LOL Sex isn't just straight up take off the clothes and get busy.. That is p*rn.. Getting her in the "Mood" takes time and careful planning.. But if you just want sex then hell ... Your going to frigin college man and there will be plenty of p**sy that will be thrown at you...
SwoLy, you just need to stay out of these threads. You know they make your blood boil and no one wants to be preached down to anyway.
okay so sounds like you have only kissed. So you need to get a little further along but make sure instead of you reaching some milestone like, eating her out or hand in pants ,you need to make sure she is enjoying it and comfortable. Make it about her. She needs to be in the mood and feel sexy first. None of that is gonna happen if you are talking about. Be passionate and make her want to get busy. Be romantic if possible. When I lost mine with my high school girlfriend she was a virgin too. It was a great experience and by the time we hit senior year I was hitting that ish twice on sundays. It took time and it was a process. Sure I wanted to but made sure to I didn't want to be overbearing. In my case I was leaving for the summer on a long vacation.. and I asked her if I never came back 'what would she do' ? she said she would 'want to jump my bones if she saw me again' She realized then what she was saying and she decided she wanted to do it. We had sex the next night and then I left for vacation. If you can set it up to where you are leaving and put some kind of superficial deadline she may come to realize she wants to do it now and not wait. High school intensity at play. Still though you got to get the engine running and see about getting some more moments alone to show her you are the man. girls are fun at that age you can make them go crazy just by holding their hand if you do it right. There needs to be buildup and from the sounds of it there isnt, so its going to be a long road. You have to make her want it.
I've read this whole thread and I have found about 3-4 posts there should be considered "good advice". The rest, I hope the OP ignores them because they are BS.
I assume you are 17. In this day of the internets, how can you not know what 3rd base is? 1st base: From what you've stated, this is how far you have gone 2nd base: Involves interaction with the shirt area 3rd base: Interaction with the pants area. Home Run: Hopefully you can figure this one out. But a year of holding hands and kissing? Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but move on. As you both get older maybe she comes around, but you're wasting your time waiting for it. Especially when you go to college and see how things operate there.
Geezus you guys look like you just got out of junior high. F me with a broom sideways if i ever have a daughter
Catch 22: 1. You stay with her... you wait a while until she gets more comfortable with herself (It's not about you, unless she saw you getting out of a cold shower). 2. You break up with her because she's not putting out. She goes all out chicken head on your baseball team. Seriously though, there's nothing wrong with wanting more. If I could travel back in time and talk to my HS self, I would tell myself not to worry about relationships. Sure, it's nice to have some companionship, but you're more likely to learn more about yourself by going for it and making some mistakes along the way. You will change a lot over time. This is why most people wait to "settle down" in our generation. I've seen friends that started dating when they were 17-19, break up with their HS or early college sweethearts in the late 20s because they just became different people. Now, if you do wait and your heart tells you to be with this girl, then you just have to give her time. Focus on yourself though. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be (or not). Oh and... If it doesn't help you get some... you'll at least get some truth.
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Saving it for PROM NIGHT so it will be Magical or some such . . . So . . just wait . . . and don't piss her off before prom Rocket River
If her father doesn't accept you after all these years, tell him to go back to Africa. (Assuming he is from Africa of course. Otherwise you would be seen as a racist and the plan would backfire).
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I cant be the only one tjats ever been so horny i went for a ride on the rainbow before. She didnt do oral and i wasnt really into the pooper like she was so i settled for the rainbow. Again really stupid. I blame every stupid decision i ever made on my penis
I have no idea what this means, and I'm afraid of the possibilities. Add this to your vagina pee and sex hole question and you're one weird dude.
