Correct. Her mom calls her and occasionally asks how I am doing..then the forced "oh here talk to your dad"... same religion, same ethnicity/culture etc.
I've had 2 great relationships ruined by her parents. Based on my experience, it's not going to work. If they don't like you, then save some time and effort by ending it as soon as asap. Or you can tell your dad to get educated and get yourself a little taller and a DR title in front of your name. DD
if you guys love each other then what her father thinks shouldn't matter.. she needs to stand up for you at some point... but i can imagine, from yall's cultural background, that it's easier said than done
That's exactly right. Like I said in my earlier post, you never want to get between a girl and her family. And while you should rank at the top of the hierarchy... family still comes a very close second in many relationships. OP, You'll really have to hash this out. This won't go away and you need to know now and not after you're married.
Tell her dad that you have a big di*k and good genes that will make their future grand children beautiful. Seriously though, why he hates you so much? Is she the only child?
nope. she is the oldest out of 2. well it doesn't help i haven't officially asked or talked to him about our relationship. i dont know. i just can't imagine breaking up over her dad...not after this many years at least.
Be a man, ask to meet him and sit down with him. Tell him you love his daughter, have only the best of intentions for her, and you'd like to marry her some day. Tell him you want to have a good relationship with her family because it's important to both of you to have that and in the event you have children you want everyone to be in that child's life without any hard feelings. If he's a real man he'll recognize your sincerity and try to make it work. If he punks out then you tried and you can write him off and I'd suggest marrying her if you love her and then move way the hell away from them.
That sucks, neither you or your girl want to fight the daddy. Just end it now and move on to someone else.
Do you even know why he doesn't like you? If you don't and you've been dating this girl for 8+ years, well that's one more reason why he shouldn't like you. Like CometsWin said, nut up or shut up. You sit down with him like the adult that you are and talk to him. If he refuses or can't give you an honest answer, you need to move on.
