[Bro Help] Rebounding your life after a serious relationship

Well she's not going to admit her mistake and even if she does it's still lame.She sucks unfortunately.

I had the EXACT same situation except when I called her back I talked to her. she said 'hey what are YOU doing?' I was instantly thinking how nuts she was, what a sick relationship it was and that I wanted to just drill her right there over the phone. Within an hour she was over and we were having ' I missed you, we are back together, screw your brains out sex' and were back with each other right away. I think she has here clothes there the same day, and all her crap within 72 hours.

Pretty soon (within weeks) we were back to fighting and I said I was going to a friends house and she punched me. She didn't like this one girl that was going to be there, and apparently that was enough reason to punch me. Yeah she was a jackass girlfriend. So I had to break up with her.

I dropped her at her house and she kept pulling up her shirt asking me if I was sure that I didnt want 'these t***' She had perfect t*** and the truth was I wanted to slam her right there everytime she flashed me like that. Her t*** were like kryponite and she knew it but finally that one last time I was able to drive away.

After that I was able to avoid talking to her ,and she decided quickly to bang the first guy that walked through the door ,and was soon pregnant and getting married to some un suspecting guy. Poor guy. well at least she has nice t***. moral of the story you did the right thing to not talk to her and hang up. I should have hung up and eventually did.

 

You've been with her for 7.5 years, did marriage ever enter the conversation?
I'm old school so if I know deep in my gut that she's a keeper, I'll take a leap of faith and marry her.

 

Not terrible advice. You have to get back in the game. While I would prefer hitting the clubs and bars over using the internet services, one of my best friends (divorced) uses them all the time and at least frequently gets out and has fun (and gets laid), even if he hasn't met anyone he'd want to get "serious" about doing it. I'd view it as a way to get comfortable with the dating scene again, which would make the clubs and bars a lot easier to cruise. And simply keep your eyes open. You might literally stumble into a chick at the grocery store, or taking a walk, that could lead to a relationship. It happened to me in the past.

 

The instant you realize you've gone through a day being 'over' a breakup -ie didn't think about it at all after all the time being bummed out - it's like an alarm goes off in the woman's head. Inexplicably that is exactly when they somehow find a way to call you out of the blue or run into you in public.

 

one week in mexico, wasted. yes, wasted. go to a strip club and offer one of the nice young ladies the other ticket. problems solved.

 

bro, hang in there, I know how you feel.

Just basically what they other guys have mentioned before in this thread, get out and do something productive, FOR YOURSELF. Try to use this as a kind of motivation to better yourself.

I went through a very similar experience, though me and the b!$@4 weren't going out for as you as you and her did. Wish I spent the next few months after that getting out and doing productive things outside the house instead of being depressed and thinking about it every day and night.

 

Pregnancy is a wild card. Might mean better t*** in the near term. Might mean the poor guy has more to take on....in more ways that one.

 

Wow. Great timing on this thread. I just got out of a 3 week relationship with a Russian model and her French sister. It was full of romance and reality and fine food, as most things involving me are. But it just wasn't meant to be immortal. And of course no one is going to offer me sympathy because of my looks, my fitted clothes, my personality etc. But when you've been dating girls since you were 9, there comes a time in your life where anything less than timeles love just won't do. So although these girls were madly in love with me, I had to let them go.

So even those you deem fortunate, who have an infinite pool of women throwing themselves at them daily, they also feel the pain of discombobulation and lack of flow in relationships. Throughout this all, just keep one thing in mind.

You attract what you are. If you need wingmen or party hats or alcohol to talk to girls, you're going to continue living life as a closet homosexual whose gf packs up and leaves on a minutes notice. But if you have a backbone, truly live what you speak, and hunt for pleasure instead of survival ( that's one of the great Ronny metaphors of all time), beauty will come to you.

 

Lol I remember once we were making love on a pashmina carpet imported from Tehran and she (the older one) blinked and said, I want to capture this moment forever. And I laughed and said, haha, I'm not Dorian Gray, because I'm forever evolving and accepting of this. Forever growing. And she got angry and said where does that leave me if I want this feeling forever and I know you'll outgrow me?

That's when I knew I had to pull the bqndaid off before things got any stickier.