[Bro Help] Rebounding your life after a serious relationship

Find some new tang and don't ever think of women as "your everything" ever again.

Thats stupid, clingy, womany thinking.

 

lol

refer to women as assets

you'll see, your life will change dramatically into a positive direction

 

In all seriousness

It'll take time, it'll be tough, but eventually you'll get over everything and find someone better. Go out, do stuff, find some hobbies, take care of yourself first..workout!

 

ill hit youu up when im 21 in about 7 months. lol

 

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Watch this from 1:26 to 1:36. That's all you need.

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Listen to this man. Working out is a great start. Work on yourself.

Houston >>> Minnesota. She's obviously a nutcase. :grin:

 

Time heals all... And plenty of bud and alcohol too

Seriously though, try not to think about it so much. If you're in the Sugar Land/Missouri City area, you're more than welcome to chill with us, play ball, go to games, etc.

 

7.5 years is a long time. It will just take time to get over here. As far as getting back out there socially, there are a bunch of social groups that meet and travel, etc.
I also had a friend who divorced after 10 years and met her new husband through eHarmony.
Good luck and keep your head up.

 

step 1: mix in some strange -- relax your standards in exchange for building self-confidence

step 2: buy some nice clothes to hit the bar/club

step 3: walk into the bar with supreme confidence, like you own the place

step 4: clappin' cheeks with honeys

 

Join Houston Sports and Social Club and get placed onto a co-ed flag football team, or kickball team. Go to the social events and happy hours. My team is running in our 2nd season of flag football, and it's a ton of fun, and a great way to meet new people. Almost everyone is in their mid 20s to mid 30s, so it seems right up your alley age-wise. Also, hit up the gym. Feeling good about yourself starts with you physical and mental health.

 

this will make you become a better and stronger person. don't worry, you'll get over it.

 

That's probably your best bet...seriously.

You've got the right idea in trying to meet women, since you need new memories to push out the old ones with your ex....you may find it easier to meet women, and get to the point, on a dating site. More of them will also be better matches, since you can pick and choose... Otherwise you may go through a lot of really bad matches that don't stack up to what you had with your ex, which will just depress you.

 

I think that it is wishful thinking that you can get over a relationship in 6 months after being with this girl 7.5 years. jmho.

It's probably going to take a lot longer than that and you might not ever get over her. You just move on.

 

Plow everything in sight. Who gives a ****, you're still young. It sucks but whatever everything happens for a reason. If someone chooses Minnesota over Texas they aren't worth it .

 

Dude check this out... http://www.doubleyourdating.com/deepinnergame/

Its not the typical game pick up line stuff. This program actually has more to do with deep psychology that will help you conquer all the problems life has to throw at you. It has been invaluable as life tool and has made me re-evaluate how I look at things and overcome stress and problems in general. I watched this program 3 years ago and have been using it ever since.

P.S. Torrents are your friend.

Good luck.

 

Listen to some Lisa Stansfield and you'll be fine.

 

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This is truelly the best advice, ive been there and done that and this experience will actually prepare you better for your next relationship. You will value things differently after this when it comes to women. She dumped you remember? You need to understand that she didnt care enough for you to make it work. You be strong brother and move on, play some bball and remember your boys are here.

 

I can't believe they have dodgeball. I wonder how many folks actually sign up for that. I think OP should sign up for that and take out his frustrations.