How long do you wait for a girl to respond to a text message before you give up?

paultsk potential? :grin:

 

DO NOT PUT MATTERS INTO HER HANDS. DO NOT TELL HER "OK, WELL JUST LET ME KNOW WHENEVER YOU'RE AVAILABLE". DOONT DOOO ITTTTTTTTTTTT. why? because you're only coming across as a man with no control with himself and no dignity. You're pretty much putting your life on hold for HER. THAT IS NOT COOL. That communicates to her that youre not a worthy man and that you're a WUSS.

Now, what you should do is break off any contact with her. Dont text her tomorrow, in a couple days or next week. Dont. She already came up with 2 excuses. 2 mothaF**** excuses. She's not interested, dude. I'm sorry. Forget about her. If by any chance she IS interested, she will get in contact with YOU. AND PLEASE, stop putting so much emphasis on this chick and saying to yourself "oh but maybe she's the one". PFFF, PLEASE. There are plenty of women out there dude. Dont let this girl drive you crazy. Show her that you're not desperate and that you value your life to a point where you dont put up with women flaking on you. F that.

 

where is that spacekid btw? haha

 

you sound like a 15 year old.

 

I find that honesty brings the greatest rewards, along with being the quickest way to resolve this kind of thing.

If you want to know if she's interested just tell her that you'd like to go out sometime and to text you to let you know when she's free.

Then forget about it, if she texts, great, if not, move on.

Sitting at home laying on your bed looking at your phone waiting for it to beep isn't helping anyone.

 

Why wouldn't next week work for you?

 

just forget about her, dude, please. dont text her again. even if she texts back, dont even reply with anything. you need to let her know that you dont put up with BS. and she IS BS'ing, trust me. she's probably shaking her head at your gullibleness.

 

Why don't you just call her?

 

OK, Now I'm starting to realize why she didn't text you back...

 

Why are females so complicated?! I hate it that we guys have to go through so much garbage just to get with a girl, and that there are so many unwritten "don't do this and that or you will make her lose interest" rules. It's like rocket science, sometimes you're good with a girl, she really likes you and then you do something wrong without even knowing it and she starts to ignore you or is mad somehow from that point. And you honestly don't even had a clue what went wrong(happened to me last month).
Whyyyyyyyyyy?????

 

Girls love to be asked out via text.

Too late now, but you should have called.

 

Did you bother reading his original post:

So I ask this girl out through the phone (like a man) but she says she is busy so we reschedule it but says yes, says next time just text her....

 

Yeah, I read it. Not sure if you know how to talk to women or just how to troll on a forum, but asking a girl out over a text is a set up for failure. This way, there's no confrontation when she says 'no' or simply doesn't respond. It's an easy way out for her. Don't give her that option.

 

Lolligagz :grin:

 

What's so special about this girl that texting her warrants this much thought? Unless she cooks like a grandma and humps like a w****, she ain't really worth this much run-around.

 

How am I trolling? You told him to call. He said in his original post that he did call and she eventually told him to text. He was doing what she asked.

How is that ignoring what a woman asks working out for you?

 

It would be funny if she were on ClutchFans reading this...

 

Getting married in April.

Just because a woman tells you something doesn't mean you should do it. Not sure if you have much experience in this category, but often times what they say and what they want are completely different. If you want some more advise, please don't hesitate to ask.