Why limit yourself to just one flavor? So many other varieties out there to just stick with one. I'm sure we all have our preferences but my dream is to date at least one chick from every nationality.
I've always wanted to try one but never did for some reason. I dated mostly hispanic girls, but some white ones here and there. Now I'm married to a black chick, first one I ever dated, guess it's really the person not the race.
Cleverly disguised "what race of women do you prefer masturbating to pictures of on the internet?" thread.
i always thought it was strange for someone to only date one particular race. I mean, sure we all have our type (body style or race or whatever) but when someone is so stead fast on race than there is something a bit strange about that.
There's already a hottest asian chick and black girl threads. On the topic at hand, it's a preference, like a woman wanting a tall guy, guy wanting a woman with bigger breasts (or bigger butt or bigger feet), gay guys wanting to date bears, or people who want to date celebrity look alikes. All sorts of fetishes. When it comes to race and ethnicity, sometimes I do have to say that person does cling to certain stereotypes both positive and negative about particular group. I know a handful of people who date exclusively black men/women, when they're race white or people who date exclusively white/Asian, when they're race is black or asian. I've dated out of my race/ethnicity/religion, several times, yet I do not come away thinking "their ice is much colder and refreshing" attitude. I know some girls and even grown men get excited when white guy says, "I love black/asian women," or "I have dated (or slept-f#cked) with black girls, before." Another example, an white or black woman says that,"She loves Asian guys, more than any other type of man." Nothing is wrong with those things at all. Though at the same time, I often say to physical preferences involving race, a certain body size or height, or particular design of person ..., "Your point being, why is that supposed to impress somebody?" It's like if you have bigger breasts and are really pretty, you are going already be suspicious of most guys, because it seems to be what their looking for not necessarily the person on the inside. It's like watching all of these guys at work is like watching a stream of never-ending bad, yet cheesy commercials. Women can be the same way, especially when vying for the affections of a well-to do man. Like you would think those Housewives/Basketball Wives shows would be a complete, utterly ridiculous circus. Yet, people do carry on like that in real life. On my personal level, I do not have any physical or social preferences, a person can be scumbag, regardless if they are white or black sitting on a rich stash vs. a poor one. While, all women are not made of sugar and spices, and will drop a serious case of cyanide or rat poison into your drink, if the motivation for a particular reward was high enough. Throw a race on any of the faces, and scenario doesn't change. Honestly, I think most people are either shallow, money hungry, or just want sex, especially nowadays and wonder why their relationships end up in ruins and why dating sucks. For example, a poor woman having affair with a wealthy married man who certainly is not thinking about leaving his family. Yet, this dumb woman believes this guy is going to leave his family, most of his assets, and a good bit of his money for her depreciating (not so great to begin with, but she does have gigantic boobs for the pervs out there) looking behind (she doesn't look any where as good as the man's wife and probably not fitting the bill of wife-material either). Yet, this insane girl has the audacity to tell me, oh well (pluto), you could actually meet decent person, if you had more preferences. Yet, I am not the one who doesn't cling to a boyfriend in jail who has kids by 3 other women, and is talking to a guy trying to get through college and being propositioned by a man who is seemingly a six-figure earner. Girl at hand, does prefer black men, especially if they are tall and well-endowed, while she'll consider dating white or asian guys, if they have enough money. The first two guys are black men, while the wealthy guy is a white guy in his late 40s to early 50s. She often gets mad with me sometimes, because I do not seem willing to talk to her, after she pretty much said "black women ... have certain character flaws, that most other women are not prone, too." I heard "vain," "selfish," "wifely,"and "unable to give a man a chance, unless he has a nice bank account." I wanted to fold up a chair and smack her against the head WWF style. I hate to say this, but that's how it sounds when people typically have preferences outside of their own race (or other types of fetishes). Again, there's nothing wrong with it. My problem only comes when one expects other people to think like that and it's just not comforting.
All i ever see is hispanic girls that date white guys only. I'm not talking about your ghetto/ghetto fab/chola..whatever. I'm talking about the ones who barely speak spanish and grew up in mostly white areas like myself. It's annoying and it's sad. I'm tired of white girls. I want me a good latina/hispanic girl, but all they see in me is that i'm not white. Maybe it's b/c they grow up watching movies, reading magazines, seeing billboards. Anywhere you look, it's a white person as a symbol of what is most beautiful in the world. They grow up wishing they were some beautiful white girl with some tall, wealthy white man. Even Jesus is a blonde hair, blue eyed man in their pictures at home lol.. Just take a look at a Spanish channel, it's all the white looking people as the stars that are drop dead gorgeous. The darkys are the comedic relief that act r****ded just to get a laugh. My grandpa from Mexico was light haired with blue eyes and my other had green eyes. Theres a lot of white looking people in my family. I bet if i tell a hispanic girl this, it will spark more interest in her as she would think if she ever had kids with me, they could come out looking white-but why take a risk when you could just hook up with a white dude and be sure.
Oh, and check out some dating sites. You will see clearly hispanic/latina girls who put white as their race. I know technically, they can say that, but if theres an option of hispanic/latin. You've got to choose that. So pathetic. I came across several profiles on POF where they actually say "White guys only, sorry but i don't date my own race".
I likes teh white women. Spoiler Truthfully, if a girl is cute, she's cute. It doesn't matter what race she is. I love em all.
Men love anything with a vagina. Women are mostly the ones who only date a certain race or type. They will throw in an experimental drunken one night stand a few times in their lives, but that's it.
Opposite on this one as well, one of my friend's friend is Asian and looked really good. Take her out and I can't find an attractive Asian chick to save my life.
Ha. You got it spot on. Our culture tells us the whiter the skin, the better. My Mexican grandmother had blonde hair and green eyes and initially rejected my eldest sister cause she was too "india", but spoiled me because of my light skin and hair. I'd like to think I'm not that way and I'm not attracted to Hispanic males mostly because of the culture difference. I don't listen to Spanish music and speaking Spanish makes me terribly uncomfortable. I don't worship saints and I don't carry a crucifix. I love alternative and rap music. I hate men that are overly masculine and like to show it. I hate tattoos and I value education. In my experience, I'm more likely to find more in common with a white or black person, so that's who I tend to notice first. An attractive person is an attractive person though, man, woman, black white, brown, if you are hot, I will look. But if you show a hint of any of those tendencies that I see as negative, I'll lose interest fast. And for reference, I have nieces and nephews that are half-black, half-white, and others that are just Hispanic.
You mean they don't object to it or actually participate in it? Because the latter isn't all that true on the farther ends of the spectrum.