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Six months and I still haven't moved on

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Outlier, Jan 28, 2012.

  1. Mr. Clutch

    Mr. Clutch Member

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    Why don't you date your ex AND other girls at the same time?

    Just be open to the possibilities.

    Ya never know.
     
  2. TreeRollins

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  3. Fyreball

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    Sack up dude. She CHEATED on you. She made sweaty, naked, passionate love with another man while she was committed to you. If that's not enough for you to tell her to go **** herself, then I really don't know what to tell you other than to get some freaking dignity. You justifying it by saying you might not have given her what she needed is a total load of sad-sack crap. If you don't start respecting yourself, she (or any other person) will NEVER respect you. Stop with the BS infatuation of somebody who literally didn't give two sh!ts about you when she was in bed with another guy, and move on. You will find somebody who DOES care about you the way that you need, and only then will you understand that this torch you carry for your ex needed to be extinguished long ago.
     
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  4. Relentless

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    This right here. Life goes on.

    Just let her do what she does. Hoe.

    This too shall pass
     
  5. Apps

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    You don't need her back. You need a swift slap to the face, a thorough shaking, and an ice cold shower.

    I don't even know how to respond to this. The fact that you're even considering getting back with her under the pretext that maybe YOU were at fault for HER cheating is mind-blowing.
     
  6. McNultyisDrunk

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  7. Obito

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    It's been over a month & I still haven't moved on.... from Charger football :(

    Thank god the Rockets are playing great. *knocks on wood*
     
  8. Dairy Ashford

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    Church socials and volunteer work: you don't feel guilty or nervous about going after just the hot ones because they're already decent and presumably lonely enough to have free time. And of course you're in a non-dating context, so assuming you're not a completely socially inept you should be able to get to know them first and find another "one."
     
  9. Dei

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    Play this game: http://katawa-shoujo.com/ then, come back and tell me if your girl was as good.
     
  10. Big MAK

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    I'm going to tell you what I told my buddy who has been mooping around for the past month after being dumped by his gf after 3 years. Grow a pair, man up, get you d!ck wet and bang some randoms. Nothing makes you feel better than to do some random, big breasted girl.
     
  11. JayZ750

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    You should get back together. You're not listening to anyone in this thread anyways. Just get back together. Or don't. Just stop whining. What are you? Two years old. Mopey, whiners are the worst.

    And pictures needed for Alba comparison. Ok? Thanks.
     
  12. Manny Ramirez

    Manny Ramirez The Music Man

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    Repped. No offense, OP, but you sound like a goddam p***y. But then I might be jaded considering I was married for 5+ years, have a child, and is now divorced. So be thankful that you are NOT me, lol. But seriously, move on with your life.
     
  13. Eric Riley

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    People make mistakes while in relationships. But more importantly, people make mistakes after relationship... like talking to an ex when you know you shouldn't. Even though you might want to reach out to her and text her, don't. Keep your dignity. Don't do anything you'll regret.
     
  14. justtxyank

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    You can act like a man!
     
  15. justtxyank

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    This reminds me of 50/50. You need to tell her to get the f off your porch and then throw knives at a painting she gave you.

    It will help you move on.
     
  16. B-Bob

    B-Bob "94-year-old self-described dreamer"
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    It's very obvious that you should go for the mom. Older women rule.

    That's the reason she's texting you. You can either sext the mom, or, to be slighly more subtle, propose meeting up somewhere (romantic) to talk about her daughter, your lost love.
     
  17. Yung-T

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    Do her Sister and Mom, make pictures or film it, send to ex.
    R.E.V.E.N.G.E.
     
  18. got em COACH

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    Move on buddy and find yourself a look alike celeb like this hawt chick here
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  19. Realjad

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    Two tips of advice

    1. Wait more time

    2. Smoke some herb

    With the combination of the two you will be able to move on and get your life back in order, it will be a weight off of your shoulders and you will be an overall much happier much more productive individual.

    However, through a break-up that has hurt you for 6 months and counting be aware this experience when conquered by my two tips above will have De-sensitized you for the future.. Not much will ever hurt you emotionally again (and there are things that will happen in which you actually will wish you could show emotion-- or felt more emotion for/towards, but oddly you wont and you will feel guilt for not being able too.. You will screamout 'Why can't I feel sorrow? Why can't I cry?? Dammit I miss feeling!!'-- then through your de-sensitized nature you will shrug your shoulders and say to yourself 'Oh well it's better to be positive anyways then focusing on negatives and losses')
     
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  20. Xerobull

    Xerobull ...and I'm all out of bubblegum
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    Sweet sassy molassy, son, ignore these complicated get better schemes and get yourself some p***y. Nothing builds a man's confidence like a string of conquests. Pretty girls are a dime a dozen and it's easier than ever to get laid in America now with the Internet.

    And for lawd's sake, quit putting that p***y on a pedestal.
     

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