I mean I was thinking that maybe she told her mom to text me and say sorry because she was too embarrassed to do it herself
You do not go back to a girl who cheated on you. That's straight trash. My first gf cheated on me, and I don't even make eye contact anymore.
lol did not bother reading your full post, distracted by AtM. Srsly move on, most cheaters tend to be recidivist.
date the sister. her mother already knows you, and probably likes you, her sister is still in contact with you, and would be a slap to the face to your ex gf.
Relationships work both ways.. I probably wasn't being a good boyfriend.. thus her decision to look elsewhere
When a relationship isn't satisfying, a decent person would communicate this with her partner and try to work things out. If that doesn't work, she should then end the relationship. Evidently, she is not a decent person. Just a backstabbing witch. Blaming yourself is pretty ridiculous.
You need to grow a pair and man-up. That's what it takes to move on. Smh, sounds like you're whipped. Maybe you didn't treat her well. I don't know if you're anything like your online persona in real life, like when you engage in unprovoked name-calling, but that could be a reason she cheated on you and then left. You should learn to better control your emotions. I would move on, but you seem like you wanna take her back. Too Short always said you can't turn a hoe into a housewife, and I think that's pretty much spot on 99% of the time. You can try and play captain save-a-hoe and get her back, but, being the nice guy that I am, here's some advice: I would tell her that I would take her back on one condition-if she brings another girl over and all three of you have some fun. Afterwards, I would tell her right then and there that I changed my mind and kick both of them out.
Hang in there, dude. I know it's tough. I've experienced what youre going through plenty of times. Now, I sort of grew some balls and now I'm the one blowing the girls off, it drives them crazy. I have been single for quite some time; and now I have girls that would die to be with me. I focused on myself. I hit the gym; I focused on my career and pretty much just "did me". That's what you have to do.
Just talk to her because that's not really her mom or sister texting you. Get her back for what she did. Sex tape and do the monkey bars on her.
I did this. My drive and determination at the gym was crazy. My physical appearance has changed for the better over the past couple of months thanks to the breakup. But after I've reached this certain point, I've lost the fire... and I'm back to thinking about her. and Lol @ Kwame. No, I was probably the nicest, most loyal boyfriend for her. Problem is, I wasn't doing all the sweet things such as giving her roses and ****. I thought we were good and she was fine with none of that stuff because she said what matters is that we love each other every day. Well it turns out there was some douche doing all that crap for her at work and she fell for him. Funny thing is they broke up.
Then it sounds like she is either an attention w****, insecure or just plain childish. She lacks maturity in her decisions and is not worth it. As you keep posting more info I am coming to realize you are just infatuated with her.
You were born alone, you will die alone. Love, is something that can easily be passed around, like a peace pipe. Keeping a positive mindset goes a long, long, longgggg way; get it? Just being positive makes the universe swirl back into place. Worry about Y-O-U. Have you reached your goals? If not, set new ones. People will always come into your life for the tragedy of reasons. Stay "^"
She did say when she broke up with me that we both needed time to grow and mature. Infatuated? Maybe. It helps when she freakin looks like Jessica Alba without the boobs. Probably the finest thing I'll ever get in my life. And her adorable bubbly personality.. her humor.. part of the list, of the things I miss.
Never give second chances to cheaters. **** her (not literally)! Even if she reminds you of Jessica Alba, without the boobs. Find a Scarlett Johansson with the boobs, or a J-Lo with the ass. I think once you've found someone else and are completely over your ex, you'd look back and look at this thread and be like lolque? Best of luck.
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Either: A) you haven't cut all ties (having the sister giving you updates for example), which is only prolonging your recovery. Cut that **** out. or B) if you have cut all ties, you just need to give it more time. One day you will wake up and go through your day and near the end of it you will suddenly realize you didn't think about her at all. It will make you feel a little sad but mostly relieved. soon afterward she will probably 'accidentally' bump into you or call you, thereby ****ing up all your progress.
um hello. its obvious you are suppose to be "friendly" to the sister and mom. doesn't sound like you have a problem. Sounds like a party!
