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deck, aren't you like 65? going back to giving advice: the key is to make "random opportunities" by artificially creating them without her knowing. *warning* if you get caught before you get to become friends, it becomes creepy.
Ok here's what you do OP. You say y'all share balconies? Well that's perfect. While she's away from her apartment sneak into her place and hide in her closet. When she gets home she'll have to go to her closet eventually. Then when she opens it say "hey baby I love a girl who knows how to dress. Wanna go out?" Instant p***y.
but he might have been talking about the free love era which was the period that birth control was widely accepted and used and no one had ever heard of teh AIDS. Pretty much everyone was screwing with zero consequences. Otherwise known as the sexual revolution 1969 to the early 80's.
something like this. keep it simple. she probably gets sick of nervous guys awkwardly hitting on her too soon. the first 2 or 3 times, i'd just say some innocuous line that you'd normally say to a dude, or an elderly person, or anyone else (stuff happening in the apt complex, maybe?). once she gets used to these super casual encounters, she should feel comfortable initiating an exchange at some point. no matter what it's about, if she initiates, then you know you've reached "the point" - the point where you can mention a personal anecdote or recall an inside joke between the two of you, or even use what you know about her at this point to mention fun things you do that you know could pique her interest. it's more playful now, and you're still not *pressuring* her to do anything, which will put her at ease even more. i know a lot of guys these days feel like it's not worth the work and patience, but i've always been more in favor of a slow, natural progression rather than someone just blurting out "hey i think you're pretty, let's date" after a couple of brief encounters. just don't act desperate and you should be fine.
Bro, your posting about it on a dorky, basketball, IT type message board instead of introducing yourself and saying hello to the girl and asking her to come hang out. You don't have a chance.
I agree with finalsbound, but would probably go with something at least a little flirty, so she knows you're interested and possibly get a feel as to what her own interest is. Otherwise she may think you just like to talk and/or aren't into her that way (gay?). You'll be stuck in the friend's zone before you know it.
Yep, slow play. Plan to go away for a weekend and ask her to please keep an eye on your plants or get your mail or something. Pack bags, give the impression you're all set to go and check with her again before you leave, then cancel plans (or have plans canceled for you ) at last minute. Do something for her as thanks for wanting to help you out. Build from there.
During the early 1970's?? By 1980, that had been history for a while. The sub-culture changed long before AIDS impacted social mores. And thanks, Zboy! :-D-
Apartment living in a big city is closer to hotel stays or 'dorm room' mode than it might seem, even for adults but especially if you're under 30. (If they're single they probably noticed you too though they wont say. Not "perving" but noticed. Especially if there's an apartment pool)
A quick check if a girl has you in her potential BF list: make a reasonably dirty comment. If she smiles and laughs it off, you're good. If she's creeped out, well, worst thing that could happen is you go to jail.
bad test, some girls are actually decent (or put on that front of being non-whorish) and those are the most freaky.
