Have you ever went out with an unattractive girl

And the clapper.

 

If you think the girl is unattractive then you most likely aren't even in to her.

 

hey her mouth counts

we're just waiting for the part of the story where she'll be into him...

 

Obviously she is avoiding the light- perhaps she is a vampire?

Spoiler

Her having a penis is probably more likely, however

 

When I see a new post by Outlier I know I'm in for a good afternoon of laughs.

 

What kind of crap is this...? You don't know she's "ugly" until you go out with her?

Also, it's a GUY.

Fixed.

 

Yeah, pretty much what I got, too. A scar from an appendectomy isn't all that uncommon.

 

Perhaps she had an extra penis that needed to be removed??

 

Spoiler

 

Sort of related, but I've had some hookups that I wasn't necessarily proud of. They "seemed" better, mostly because they were easy and young (college freshmen).

Definitely should make sure she understands this isn't a commitment thing. But as the one poster said, yeah girls can get attached really easy. I have this [probably terrible] habit of telling a girl everything she wants to hear, getting what I want out of it, and then completely ignoring them. Pretty ****ty, but ehh.

There was one girl who I knew wasn't great (the cute face is tricky and misleading for the rest of the body), but was such an easy catch. She was visiting a friend for a few days and there was zero chance I'd see her again (lived in a different country). Definitely wouldn't have pursued had there not been a known time-limit on her visit.

Unfortunately she fell in love with me. Phone calls and Facebook messages ensued.

So there's really no advice. I guess the easiest thing to say is: have fun, be careful (wrap it up), and don't EVER bring her out in public.

 

My advice is bring her home to mum and dad as soon as you get the chance.

 

made me bust out laughing.

 

I hope most of you realize this guy posted here as McGrady before being Outlier. He was the guy who asked if he got his girlfriend pregnant from unprotected sex, another epic thread that showcased his stupidity.

 

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I have dated unattractive guys, and for the most part there's barely a single rational difference between attractive and unattractive guys, same with girls (dated both attractive and unattractive). Each can be as lovely or scum baggy as the other one. They both can bring sweet joys, or utter hell. Just because someone is unattractive doesn't mean they are going to (not) cheat on you or is clinging at your boot.

Also, it's not enough for a man to have looks, sometimes it doesn't even matter. He's got to be on his feet (for most women) socially and financially (somewhat), he's got to be somewhat interesting personality wise, somewhat charming, somewhat sensitive, loyal (definitely desirable), a little sense of self, and etc. Did I mention he has to be somewhat adequate in bed, too.

I hate to say, even the unattractive girls you talk about, have probably turned down more guys than what people would generally called an above average looking guy. Remember, even the most repulsive, untouchable, awkward, even slightly obese girl is still probably less likely to be a virgin than say a very cute, well-built guy who might be awkward, socially inexperienced.

Alot of guys, especially if they are socially inept or addicted to outstandingly attractive women, "If she's hot, I'll take her, I don't care." (Until, he finds out she doesn't really want to have sex with him, unless she gets something in return).

I notice guys tend to hold their more attractive ... exes up on a pedestal, even though the girl dumped him, cheated on him, spent most of his money, didn't offer great sex. "Oh, she was tall, she had the greatest set of blue eyes

Girls will hold any great significant other up on a pedestal... and sometimes if he was rich, talented, or famous for something they would definitely gossip about that.

Lastly, these unattractive girls, exactly how unattractive are they, I noticed that changes from person to person, and guys who have said that their exes are unattractive or fat, really didn't look as bad as they made it out to be. Maybe, average looking or unassuming, or not attracted to that particular girl. But funniest thing is, most of these guys complaining or talking about their unattractive girlfriend (s) seem to be fairly unattractive themselves. Not what I would call Cary Grant, Orlando Bloom, Chris Brown, or Dolph Lundgren material. I don't think men are truly as confident about themselves as they make it out to be for one they often are more likely to hide in closet about who they are dating, like anyone cares. The biggest icing on the cake is that these guys are probably single and have not had sex in ages.

 

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Okay I'm confused - plutoblue - u a dude, right or are you a chick? If you are a guy, are you a bi?

 

I'm thinking the OP's attractiveness level is no Brad Pitt. And yet he's talking about this girls imperfections.