And what was your experience with it? You all know my previous story, and I'm at that stage where I wanna get booty. I asked for this girl's number right after drinking with friends. It was very dark, and she looked very pretty. The thing that I noticed off the bat was her Sookie teeth (gap in the middle of the two front teeth), and I thought okay... fine. I went all out with my game, and she immediately fell in love with me that very night. At first I was amazed by this because I don't usually do this and it was cool that I could pick up a girl like that (and she wasn't drunk at all). I told her I wasn't ready for anything serious, and she agreed that it was okay to be friends with benefits. Don't read if you're just a kid Spoiler So the other night we had our first "intercourse". She was on her period, but she gave me a BJ. and it was THE_BEST_BJ Ever. So what's wrong with this chick? It all seemed fishy to me that the night that we met she wouldn't enter the convinent store with me. She also didn't want to come to Starbucks. Anywhere with lights. When I brought her to my room, she wanted the lights off. And she was damn fine with the lights off. But when we were over, I went straight for the lights to turn it on and she rushed to turn it off. Saying that she was very shy about her body. Then I noticed a scar on the left side of her tummy saying it was an "apendicitis" or whatever that is. This turned me off... I like girls who are comfortable in her own skin. So right now my situation is... do I decide to keep this girl as a F buddy even though I'm not attracted to her or do I let her go and search for a new one?
Are you sure she's not "on her period" or shy about her body because she has a weiner? I would make sure of that before anything else. I've gone out with an unattractive girl before. She was a friend of a friend's and she came over dressed like a sexy pilot on Halloween night. I was very drunk, her clothes were misleading, and I took her out the next day (in daylight). I figured, "She's not the hottest, but I'm spending money on her. Might as well hit it." She ended up not leaving me alone for five months. She'd tell me she loved me, I'd tell her I didn't love her and that I didn't want a relationship. She ended up stopping her birth control without telling me so that she could trap me. Luckily, she told her friend, who is more my friend, and I found out before any damage could be done. It wasn't the worst though, she was fun in bed and fell over herself trying to make me happy. Just watch out for the crazy and check on the weiner thing. Go from there.
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Just admit to yourself, "I have low standards, and head is head," and you'll be much more at peace with your decisions.
Somebody has to love the ugly girls, right? You are just doing a public service ...and we love you for that. If it weren't for people like you, we'd have a bunch of pissed off flesh eating fugly chicks running around. At least keep telling yourself that.
Maybe the store wasn't all that "convinent" for her. Have you thought about, sir? Outlier: Methinks this store is rather convinent! Fat Chick: Are you mad? What a preposterous notion! Fie upon it! Sirrah, take me to my dwelling and let us bunk on this warm, summer's eve. Hie thee hence!
Going out and hooking up are two different things. I am sure most guys can relate to the latter. There is no reason to not have a few Fbuddies stashed away as long as you are very clear and up front with them and even in that situation its not a guarantee that over time they will continue to respect your stance. Basically I have had no issues maintaining booty call friends for late night drunk dials, but I don't think I have ever gone out on prolonged dates with someone I have not been attracted to, but really, it all depends on what your comfortable with.
