Walk and talk date places?

The zoo or the arboretum? Kind of hot though.

 

just go somewhere where both of y'all can comfortably sit and talk. You don't have to force something to talk about like your surroundings. If y'all have chemistry y'all will hit it off, if not, then well..you'll know.

 

Rice Village

 

A zoo or a museum for that matter can be seen as "too casual."

Ask yourself this: why would a girl want to let her guard down to have fun at a zoo, when she doesn't even know if she likes you or not.

Also, a zoo tells a girl you are interested in a relationship rather than just looking for a good time, which makes it harder to close the deal if you are put in that "relationship zone."

My vote would be to take her to a trendy restaurant. Withhold the zoo for a second or 3rd date when your danger factor, lol. To that point, you might want to skip that altogether.

 

How does it go?

"It's summa time..."

 

the Grove at Discovery Park.

 

I meant after you have established your "danger potential."

The quickest way to get a girl to like you is to show her a world she'd like to be apart of.

For example, rather than taking her to a museum (which is really a random, boring activity) tell her that you have an artist friend who is having an art exhibit and would she like to go. In this case, you are still taking her to a museum, but it has become exciting now that she knows that YOU KNOW THE ARTIST.

Subtle difference, but an important one.

 

You can do a bar/restaurant and then walk around checking out the shops they have around there. Also you could do dessert at the Chocolate Bar afterwards if you do get lunch or dinner.

 

for lunch istanbul or for dinner mi lunas

 

Those are good. There is also Kubo sushi and El Meson (Cuban).

 

is this yalls first date?

 

Go go kart riding. After the bumpy rides you can thank me later

 

somewhere indoors with adequate AC

 

I honesty don't think that it makes sense.

Girls are attracted to ambitious, serious guys, so taking an interest in her ambitions says a lot about how you view your own ambitions. You might be unintentionally telling her that you don't have anything going for yourself, otherwise you would have shown her that instead. Girls only care that a guy take an interest in what they do, once they see that you have equal and exceeding ambitions that you are realistically working toward. That's really the only thing that matters to them on a first date. Of course, being funny, charming doesn't hurt either.

I think that showing a girl a good time is vastly overrated.

Your goal on a first date SHOULD BE to prove to her that you are going places and have a vision for YOUR life. Otherwise you have no chance with this girl.

To that end you have to sell her on you. Bowling can come later, along with everything else that doesn't directly contribute to you showing her your goals in life.