You got it backwards, purple one - BEP IS NOISE and garbage. Pere Ubu isn't for everyone and they'll be the first to tell you that. They have remained true to themselves and haven't sold their souls to sell albums like your BEPs did.
why are women so sure about something like love then the next they change their mind? why are women liars? why do women say they want one thing, then they go for another? i tried to be so good. every temptation i came across in my one year and one month with her, i resisted. all of my male friends cheat. i tried to be different. i wanted to be the most honest boyfriend ever. what good did that do me?
Why are you telling this story to the message board? Go to a bar, and use your vulnerability to score with hot chicks.
A lot of women don't know what's really good for them. They think they want one thing when something else is best for them. It takes many of them a good while to figure that out unfortunately. Stay true to your beliefs, continue to be a rock solid person. Every experience you have is a stepping stone to the next. There's a lot of truth in this thread. When someone like this is in a committed relationship, tells you they love you, and then breaks up with you via text they're just making it perfectly clear that they're not worth your time. You need to learn whatever lessons there are to be learned from your experience with her, get closure with it all, and move on to your next experience. Don't have any lingering doubts, doubts destroy.
Woman get comfortable with the fact that you only want them, then they take advantage. The key is not to disregard them totally, but to find the intricate balance inbetween.
Seriously dude, I guarantee you she's t*** deep in some other guys hanging fruit right now, and you're crying about it on a message board. She needed some new d**k, get over it, buy a damn boat, then Boats 'n Hoe's it for real. Her- 1 You- lulz
That simply isn't true. Or at least it hasn't been of the many great women I've dated. I would never go on a second date with a woman that's as you describe. "Women" aren't this or that anymore than men are. They are people and they are all different. If you want to put on a fake macho show for a one-night stand, whatever. But I feel sorry for you (and your future wife or girlfriend or whatever) if you intend to live your life keeping your feelings from your life partner.
I can pretty much promise you that somewhere someone is posting something very much like this: Sometimes it doesn't work out. Most of the time actually. How many people marry the first person they fall in love with? If she is feeling the way she is about your relationship for any reason (finalsbound posted many likely scenarios above), she's not the girl for you. You're lucky she left you so you could be free to find the one that is.
Woman plainly dont like wussies(at least beautiful woman dont). That doesnt mean you cant be nice and romantic at times. Just make sure to have a balance of both. (Alpha and romantic). Showing both sides drives a woman crazy, making her attraction go over the top. And I dont think he meant that he lives his life with his emotions compressed, but more that when in the dating stage--dont wear your emotions on your sleeves, and dont be a wuss bag. You'll have the chick running for the hills rather sooner than later.
Very good couple of posts there, Batman Jones. As for the OP, I have dealt with a similar situation and it's not easy. At times I was totally convinced that I could be happy with this girl, but there was a part of me that always knew that our interests and personality types were far too different for us to remain happy in the long term. I very recently expressed to her that I felt this way, and we've stopped seeing each other. And while I'm sure there will be times when I'll miss her, all I have to remember is that I know I couldn't be truly happy with her. There will be others, and one day you'll find one who genuinely want to be with you for the long haul. Until then, don't sweat it.
Only advice I can give you is it seems women (or girls for that matter) can somehow stop caring at the drop of a dime. I've been in two relationships where it would end all of a sudden and they wouldn't care about having any sort of communication. Also heard the same thing several times. i'm sure there are guys who are the same way, maybe we're both a little too emotional when it comes to relationships, I know I am. Time is the best medicine, you'll feel better before you know it.
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I guess I do have a second bit of advice; go out, being out with people having a good time totally gets your minds off your problems. sitting at home thinking about it honestly turns you more into a p***y. Also when or if you talk about her to people, get angry, call her a dirty pirate hooker, talk about her like she didn't matter and soon enough you'll think she never did.
That's a strawman argument. Nobody likes "wussies." You might as well have said "women plainly don't like men that smell bad." Being open about your feelings doesn't make you a "wussie." It's actually a pretty brave and manly thing to do. I know a ton of beautiful women and I have dated dozens of them. Most have been beautiful on the inside as well. I am a pretty alpha personality, but I have always shared my feelings openly with women I've dated. And none of them has ever broken up with me. When my past relationships have ended, it's been my decision every time. Not that I'm proud of that, but if you're dating a woman that needs you to be macho or she'll leave you, you're dating a pretty shallow woman.
Well no of course not, Im not saying showing your emotions is being a wuss. A wuss means not taking leadership in anything, allowing her to make the decisions, smothering her all the time--telling her how much you need her all the time--that you couldnt live without her--asking her if where yall are sitting for dinner is fine--etc. Relationships are wonderful and a true blessing, especially if youre with the one you truly love. Guys at times just act like the females in the relationship and thats what Im referring to as being a wuss.
This will not be your last flaky womenerrrrrr girl. Prepare yourself for the early 20 year old that doesn't know what the hell she wants and learn. B$%&HE'S ain't **** but hoes and tricks.
Very well said... I believe in always keeping your emotions in check when it comes to relationships or dating. You just don't want to admit your affection for the woman too early, specially early on in the relationship. You'd always want to keep that a mystery. There is nothing wrong with being romantic however. Actually women like romantic men. But you'd have to pretend or make her believe that you are romantic with every girl, that you are just a romantic person. Do not admit your love for her until she does that first. This is very important. It sounds to me like that was the OP's mistake. He came on too strong to the girl and that either scared her away to simply turned her off. You don't want to come across as needy. Even if you meet a girl who you think is the best thing that has happened to you and you want the world to know, you should stilll keep it to yourself. You can drown in her love all you want on the inside but keep your cool on the outside. That a great feeling to have.
