girl broke up with me a few days ago. a week before that she completely stopped texting or talking to me for no reason at all. just after the day that she told me she "loves me so much". her reason for breaking up with me? she fell out of love, the time is not right, "maybe we are meant to be but not now". so much BS. am i to assume that she found another guy? i asked her, she said no. but of course she wouldn't admit to it, i'm friends with her relatives on facebook. after four days of drinking my ass off, i have come to the realization that maybe it was a blessing in disguise. there were many things i didn't like about her, like being immature (she broke up with me via text), when she's mad she doesn't talk about it and just completely ignores me while i'm talking to her trying to explain things. and her grammar/spelling sucks (i know this post is not perfect, but hers was terrible), we weren't into the same things, blah blah blah. but knowing all of this, i still loved her like crazy. and this sucks. it sucks. she would say all this crap about she will love me forever and all this crap and i believed in it. i'm a good guy and i don't cheat, it is one of my moral codes. we were one year and one month by the way. why are women this way? should i move on? i mean i'm left with no choice, it looks like she totally has. what are your experiences when it comes to love?
just ignore her for a month and show no communication. don't reply to any of her attempts to contact you...they always come back
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nope. if she cheated on you, flip her off and leave. if she just wanted to be alone, then let her miss you first before you take her back. if she cheated on you or dated around while you were on "break" then dump her
just get on with your life. do not seek revenge. get past the hormones. you have a great opportunity here.
OP, Listen to this song: <iframe width="425" height="349" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/8t33UvkkcxY" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> Seriously, be glad that it didn't work out - it could have been worse in that you got married, had a child and gotten divorced.
They only get 1 chance. Be glad she had the decency to break up with you at all, she could have dragged it out for a year because she didn't have the sand to tell you. Now get out of the dark den of pizza boxes and whiskey bottles and into some strizzange.
This **** happens to everyone, male or female. Maybe she met someone. Maybe she's not ready for something so serious. Maybe it freaked her out that you were on an "I love you" basis. Maybe she has deep issues with rejection and she ran away scared. It happens. It happens. I have seen so many friends dump and get dumped lately that no one situation seems "special" to me anymore. Don't drink. Stop wallowing. Get off your ass and better yourself. Realize that this is part of life, and you will do yourself a HUGE favor by moving on now. Whatever you do, don't take her back. Maybe it's just me, but I have no respect for people who are so blinded with infatuation for someone that they actually put their life on hold waiting around for them to be "ready". When she broke up with you, she made her decision. Don't be a pushover.
Dead on, except the part about 'maybe' meeting someone. I would bet my left nut that she's with another guy. Hard truth, but the truth is better faced than ignored.
Rejection is easier to deal with than perceived betrayal. All depends on how the OP viewed her. If she was an integral part of his future in his mind, then he would take it very hard, if she was merely a "right now" option, well then I'd say he'll be completely fine in a couple months.
its another guy...she fell for someone else and realized that means she wasn't in love with you anymore (or as much)....unless you changed and have been an ass to her or something, which in that case she could fall out of love on her own.
Best to move on man don't over-analyze why she broke up with you. Don't try to be friends with her either. I'm trying to be friends with my ex (broke up 3 months ago) and its a total cluster **** we hardly talk any more.
