So, have you had the PrOn talk with your wife/gf yet?

My wife doesn't care and never has. It would be stupid for her to care. In our younger days she even bought me some p*rn. Now it is free so not an issue.

My wife also doesn't care if I tell her who I find attractive and we generally know who the other wants to sleep with in an abstract kind of sense. We are very honest and have a high level of trust, though, that we frankly don't see in most relationships around us. Too many people hide their thoughts or pretend they are something they are not, etc. My wife went through a sex chat fascination for a few months and there were so many guys who had wives or girlfriends who would they didn't or couldn't talk to regarding p*rn or sexual desires or whatever. It was sad.

 

The talk: "Get out, I need to rub one out"

A few times a day.

 

a person would be so lucky

there is something to this. If your sex life has died down she may be taking it more personal than need be.

 

Why would she want to watch gay dude p*rn with me, doesn't really make sense. Although, in the movie "The Kids are Alright" the lesbians watched gay dude p*rn which I thought was really weird.

The women I've been with all seem to like the guy/girl p*rn, but everyone has their fetish.

 

I have to admit that there was conflict between us in the start.

So i explained to her:

- That men are naturally horny and appreciative of the female beauty and
physique.
- That if a such a little thing should affect our love for each other, then we
are not really in love.
- That watching p*rn or looking at other women does not equate to cheating
or encourage cheating.
- That i would be a hypocrite to say that she is the only one i would
appreciate and praise in terms of physique and beauty
- That i would not be mad if she watches p*rn or appreciates the beauty and
physique of other men.

I'm glad it turned out well for us in the end, heck there was even a time she beat me off while were watching p*rn together. hehe

 

Sorry if I'm totally out of it. But what is the significance of the word "kinds" in your post? Why is it in italics? Why does it have more emphasis than any other word?

 

So you basically didn't answer the question

 

Is this the first of three conversations in which you tell us that you're gay? It's cool. Just say it.

 

that's the key here she thinks of it as cheating almost since you do have a good sex life. Getting women to understand this is tough.. you need to make her understand you are a virile guy that is only doing what is natural. Heck I will watch p*rn right after getting off to sex with my wife just because it was so hot and I am having a mini tribute to what just happened again via my p*rn. Its called sensory overload and yes I would like a 2nd helping.

 

You need to go this thread now:http://bbs.clutchfans.net/showthread.php?t=161498

 

My wife used to get angry, and still does on occasion, but for the most part she has learned it is just part of who I am.

 

I'm still stuck on how you got caught. Where you in another room? Did she sneak up on you?

 

dude, i always clear one ear from the headphone.

Not than i'm always smooth...i whispered her best friend's name during (in my defense, it was early morning & she chose to wake me w/oral).

 

Dayum... she must have loved hearing that... Did she bite down on your nuts afterwards? lol

 

the worst part was her best friend's name is John

 

My wife doesn't mind when I watch p*rn.

As long as I don't watch the ones she's starred in.



(rimshot)


(pun intended)

 

i stuck to my guns & denied it by claiming it was her imagination. She moved out a few weeks later due to trust issues (kept checking my computer, phone & whereabouts).

The 1st weekend following her departure, a friend from out of town stayed at my place. We went out, got wasted & came home by ourselves. So, we start calling escorts & being that it was so late & we were so wasted, we kept a list of the names of the girls we'd left messages for along w/a penis shaped rating system. Two girls arrive & leave following happy endings.

That morning i'm awakened by my recent ex kissing me & whispering sweet nothings in my ear (she'd let herself in w/her keys). She leaves the bedroom to get me water & somehow finds the call-girl list w/penises by the names!!!

She's now engaged to another dude!!!

BTW, she's my business partner's sister!

 

LOL, ouch. That was a huge mistake.

Do you really need volume? I can usually do without if I have to. You just have to use your imagination. Save the volume for those times when she’s actually out of the house (shopping, work, etc.).