Beachhouse no question and in the future never try to understand women they are a mess of insecurities and lack of rationality.
I'm going to wait a couple more days before deciding whether i'll go or not. Can't hurt to make that 2nd chick linger around for my decision anyways
There is no question that you should go. If you don't, you will look back when you are older and regret the missed opportunity. No doubt about it.
Dude, you're girl is playing games. It doesn't matter what else is going on, you don't want this girl right now. She sounds like she just wants your pursuit, and is awful at hiding it. Move on. To her friend. I'll double Moe's bet on Chuck E Cheese (sp?) tokens, this girl has daddy issues. If you can prove she doesn't, which I don't see how you possibly could, looks like you'll have a good forty bones of miniature skeeball at your disposal. That'll show her who acts like the eight year old in this town. Also, I'm calling foul on this "Euro Trip." Who goes to and from Prague in 4 days. After 24 hours flying there, and 24 back, that leaves her two jet lagged days of family vacation? BS. She's going to another beach house. With black guys.
she does sound like she has some growing up to do though...im not sure you got enough info from her to know if she's having doubts or was just checking to see if you missed her....only you know if she's worth the trouble of trying to patch things up.... oh wait, this is an overseas chick? Nevermind....i'm outta this conversation :grin:
You still don't get it. Don't contact her at all! She broke it off, so she needs to come to you. She came around acting normal to make herself feel better and justified about the whole thing. And you making excuses for acting different and changing, which you did although you lied and said you didn't, is giving her that justification. You're only delaying the inevitable and bringing more pain into your life. She already knows that you'll be there. Make her do the work or move on.
If she talks, as she did on facebook, just respond politely but not quickly or with much detail. Treat her as an acquaintance, you don't care enough to ignore her completely. It doesn't affect you either way. Don't take the bait and start talking about the relationship - this is a common mistake. You start off acting cool but the minute she gives you the chance you start talking about it too much again. You think it's fine, as she brought it up. It's not. I've been there. The only way this will work is if she thinks you are back to being a fully-functioning, independent and happy human being. In any case, even if it works, I advise you to move on.
Right. That makes much more sense. I also live outside the US. Apologies for my American assumptions. Go to the Beach House and take us with you vicariously.
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I'm not gonna read these past 8 pages. Fredv, man the hell up and go to the beach house with that other chick. while you're doing it with her, "accidentally" dial your ex's number and let her hear your ferocious love making. There's no such thing as a soul mate, just deep infatuation... on to the next one.
^What he said! Look I didn't read this whole thread, but two things stand out: 1) You treated her like crap, she liked it... 2) You treat her nice, she hates it.. remind me of an old saying: Treat women like wh&res and wh&res like ladies and you'll do well in life... Just go back to treating her like crap and it'll be fun for awhile, but she'll play this game again so dump her first when you get back together...as for other women, you should definitely date around to keep your mind off her...every little thing will remind you of her...just have to do things to avoid thinking of her...
