Yes. It was the rule I wanted ignore, but as soon as it was presented to me... I could not ignore the truth of it. Sound advice for a man scorned.
Thanks for the advice guys! Much appreciated! Update: She came on Facebook today, and started talking to me: Her: Hey .... Her: How was your day? Me: Fine. Me: Got to go, bye. Her: Why are you acting like this? I didn't want to talk at first but figured that since she was acting r****ded I should put her in place. So I asked wtf she was doing coming out here all normal acting like nothing happened. I told her it was over (to which she answered:"Wow you change your mind quick - making a reference to yesterday when I told her I was going to try and win her back) and that I wasn't interested in friendship, in fact she knew for a fact that I don't have many girl-friends because I don't give a damn about friendship with a woman (unless when I need advice). She said that she knew I didn't want a friendship and that wasn't the reason she came talking to me. She then ranted about how she just wanted to check up on me to see how I was doing, and said "I don't think you understand how crazy you made me for the past month, I didn't recognize you at all and don't understand why you changed, blablabla" basically **** she already said. She said that her head was full of things and needed to clear them because she was so sad. She told me that if she cried it was because she wasn't expecting our relationship to turn out the way it did, and she didn't expect that I would change and act so weird. Then I bs'd that if I was weird it was because I was having other issues that I didn't tell her about and kept for myself. I told her that I didn't change and I was still the same, but I just went through a though time and it made me act like a little whiny insecure wuss. She then said that I needed to tell her that kind of stuff, and wondered why I didn't, because "I'm not just anybody". Then she had to leave for Prague so she just said: "I don't understand why you didn't tell me that. I have to go get ready. Kiss..." She's leaving for 4 days and will be back on her birthday Friday. I certainly won't text her or contact her until then. But why did she come the next day talking to me and acting all normal? And furthermore I don't get it why she would just tell me the same things she told me the night before. (Oh, and I doubt she's going to do anything in Prague, if she's doing someone else it will be back here and not over there).
She sounds like a moron. Go bang the other girl at the Beach House. It doesn't matter if she's not as hot, just find another girl and get both of them loaded with tequila and ecstasy. Slap the uglier one in the face a couple times with a broom handle as you grab your junk and tell them about the time you once saw a star cluster that looked like Mickey Rooney's face. Tell both of them they would look better with a little more makeup. Insinuate all night that you are the king of excellence and your **** is longer than Sarah Jessica Parker's nose. This troika of arrogance, sexism, and racism will warp their feeble woman brains, turning them into an enraged, and sexually enlightened being. Their collective cervices oozing out organic splendor in anticipating of being made a primal, ultimate useless slut. Continue to make subtle hints that they are not quite as attractive as you'd prefer. Then... grab the camera phone. BOOM! Threeway Love American Style. 2 hours later while basking in the afterglow of having satisfied two moderately attractive females, snap the pictures and send it to her in a text.
Drama Queen You never really know. Could be Daddy issues, could be self-esteem issues (I'm not good enough for someone really good), could be hormones, could be you are ****-blocking what she imagines herself doing in Prague. Give it till after she's back, see if she contacts you again. Do the beachouse if you decide you don't want anything to do with her, because that will be the end of that.
I'm willing to bet 20 dollars in Chuckie Cheese tokens her daddy never gave her the attention she wanted.
Wow, reading the OP's update makes me glad I'm past that age. I remember college girls being more mature than that; his girl sounds like she's still in high school. OP, definitely move on. Of the three girls I knew who went on a trip to Europe after graduation, two were in relationships and they cheated on their BFs by getting too drunk at a club and a bar.
By the way she is going to Prague with her parents and grand-parents and will probably not go out much..
Forget about that **** son, put a slut up out of yo' head. We don't love them hoes. Now dust your game off, go back down to the minor leagues and knock out a couple dozen hood rats until you find a girl thats worth your time.
She's just trying to see if she has you by the balls. She's dumb. I wouldn't waste my time on her. Listen to Moe... Go bust her friend's guts.... and upload a pic of her as well.... Sharing is caring... it ain't fun unless the homies are getting some... Good luck to ya.
You talk too much on these subjects and most of it is mopey, self deprecating crap no one wants to hear. Keep it short and sweet and move on. If you're unattractive and really do have a neckbeard, keep it shorter.
