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Am I getting played?

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Roscoe Arbuckle, Aug 27, 2022.

  1. Nook

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    No, it’s completely shallow.
     
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  2. Nook

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    Huh? You are shallow when it comes to your partners. The first thing you always discuss is their appearance. You also tend to really dwell on their appearances.

    I don’t think being shallow is the worst thing in the world if you own it.
     
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  3. Roscoe Arbuckle

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    Been here 20+ years, son. Sometimes you need to learn.
     
  4. JumpMan

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    It isn't because being overweight implies other personality traits even outside health.
     
  5. bobrek

    bobrek Politics belong in the D & D

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    Did you type that right? I don't understand what you mean.
     
  6. JumpMan

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    Overweight women are like icebergs. Superficially, you see their overweight bodies, but under the surface there are undesirable personality traits.
     
  7. LondonCalling

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    Is the same true of overweight men?
     
  8. bobrek

    bobrek Politics belong in the D & D

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    Overweight women? Not men? Anyway...

    I know plenty of men and women through the years who are overweight. Their personality traits run the same gamut as those I've known who are the "ideal" weight or underweight.
     
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  9. fadeaway

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    Meanwhile, earlier in the thread:

     
  10. VooDooPope

    VooDooPope Love > Hate

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    Why not both?
     
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  11. JoeBarelyCares

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    20 lbs over a Kathy Ireland baseline is just about perfect size.
     
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  12. Xerobull

    Xerobull ...and I'm all out of bubblegum
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    Jennifer Connelly 20 years and 20 lbs ago >>>> Jennifer Connelly now.
     
  13. kubli9

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    Maybe your son is just a simp and this is the best he can do.
     
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  14. Xerobull

    Xerobull ...and I'm all out of bubblegum
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    [​IMG]
     
  15. King1

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    Savage. Love it.
     
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  16. Rocket River

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    Bingo!
    Love ya like a play brother on Clutchfans but
    I think your track record does not encourage one to turn to your to be a fount of dating advice
    (I Keed I Keed .. . well a little . . . LOL)
    Honestly . . . . I seriously doubt your opinion on his dating partner matters much to him
    How often in the past has he come to you for either dating advice or dating approval?
    If not often or at all . . .. I'll conclude you not liking the look of his GF is not high on his list of issues

    Honestly . . . This is something that would piss YOU off . . .not that would piss HIM off
    aka. . .. you are projecting
    (I don't know your son so maybe I am projecting a bit too)

    I say that to say this
    Maybe it is something else bothering him with you
    and you locking on this is distracting you from alternative issue that could be at play

    This whole thread as been on the girlfriend and her weight and your opinion of it
    I have questions and concerns.
    1. You don't have the relationship that he would come straight to you about it.
    He takes the stepdad's word for it and stops speaking to you? Doesn't ask you?
    2. Is there *ANY* other reason you can think of for his silence? How often did
    you talk before this bout of silence?

    Honestly . . .
    IF it is about your opinion of the Girlfriend . . its because someone told HER
    and he is supporting her or chose her over you. Is he the kind to tell her this info.
    If not .. then it is probably something else. OR SOMEONE Else told her
    (Could the StepDad tell the Ex who told the GF? BTW Where is the Ex on all this)

    Rocket River
    Your life is fascinating in a soap opera type sense.
     
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  17. Xerobull

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  18. rocketsjudoka

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    And again 20 lbs is barely obese and not near morbidly obese.
     
  19. Jugdish

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    Might want to delete this comment. She's 3'9".
     
  20. Invisible Fan

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    NGL, over 20 at a little over 20 is a bit rough.

    Like what happens when kids and 35 settles in?

    Need pics to confirm.
     
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