If you want a serious throwback as far as my miosgyny goes...there's a D&D thread from either '09 or 2010 where I basically called all women sluts. Incels weren't a thing yet but nowadays it would be labeled that. I havent read that thread in a decade but am tempted to just to see how much Ive grown.
Honestly, the first thing that popped into my head was Hostage Rescue Team (the FBI squad) Now, the only advice I can give is: Good for you! Everyone gotta be themself, something I learned a long time ago, from a very wise man:
I stopped posting here so surprised to see someone name dropping me lmao I remember y'all. Golden times of CF.
Yeah probbapy will. Im probably gonna leave soon. The D&D is taking this with all of the tact I'd expect (calling me a pedophile)
I love how me existing is "shoving my existence down their throats" while they preach non-stop I'm going to hell. No hate like Christian love.
LOL Idk...I think some misguided part of le thinks I can change it. ****ing nightmare. Theyre convinced Im a pedo
Tbf only one dude (a known idiot) sent a NY article and no one else called you even remotely a pedo, cheer up.
Lots of respect. I remember you. You do you. I have three serious questions, and I hope you do not take offense to them. There is literally no judgement here. Forgive me of my ignorance. Are you worried you'll ever want to transition back? I know you said it was easier than popular belief. Many people say there is a link between transitioning and mental illness. I don't necessarily believe this, but it's interesting you've talked about both here. Thoughts? As a dad to a young girl, I wonder if this type of thing will become more prevalent, or if it's just a fad of kids who struggle with fitting in. Thoughts on that? As I said, these are ignorant, innocent questions I have as a parent. You provide a unique perspective, and I appreciate you answering questions. Never thought I'd see that on clutchfans. Very cool of you. I wish you nothing but happiness.
**** her. Know what? You don’t owe your parents ****. When they chose to bring you into the world they made a commitment to you to give you the best life possible. As long as you aren’t hurting anyone, they should be happy for you. It turns out that you can choose to not talk to relatives. My mother is a drug addict (sneaky pill head). I only am polite to her at family gatherings. Otherwise I don’t talk to her and she doesn’t have any other contact with my kids.
I have questions. I have a cousin that has been in relationships with Trans people and I never felt comfortable asking because I didn't want to upset them. Oddly enough, Trans partners seem more sensitive than Trans people. Is your Trans (gender) journey at all related to who you have sex with? Basically, did you like women before and do you like dudes now. Is the transition more about you feeling and viewing yourself as a woman or about others seeing you as a woman? And are you OK if the latter doesn't happen? Do you consider being a Trans woman another gender separate from a biological female or is a woman a woman and you expect identical treatment from others? Not necessarily political stuff but more chivalry from strangers/acquaintances like opening the door, giving up a seat, etc.
I think of transitioning as a way to mitigate the risks of psychological harm that you often see with people experiencing gender dysphoria. It is therapeutic. But that's coming from someone who isn't trans and doesn't know any trans people. I'm also glad that someone in our community is brave enough to speak openly about it. In the 15+ years I've been here, I don't even think I've seen someone openly declare themselves to be gay, let alone trans.
Exactly. I think it is cool to be able to have the conversation for those willing to have it. Often, you only hear the side of the people that are against it, or at least in my case that seems to be true.
Yeah I thought HRT was some sort of workout routine or maybe a testosterone supplement for the purpose of bulking up. Anyway, stay safe and I wish you the best.
Not offended at all! Part of me wonders if I'll ever want to transition back, but it seems unlikely. I agree with the above poster about transitioning easing some of the mental anguish that comes with dysphoria. I will say that most doctors though won't prescribe hormones without a letter from a therapist that basically states that you're competent enough to consent to transition. This is an unpopular take among trans people, but I think it's a bit of both. There's a reason why they don't give hormones or do surgery on kids. Puberty blockers in extreme cases (which are sometimes given for other reasons. I had them as a kid because I hit puberty early). I think part of it is more exposure to trans people and awareness of LGBT people in mainstream society. I think also trans people tend to be drawn to alternative cultures like punk rock etc.
