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Are You a High Value Man?

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Xerobull, Mar 14, 2022.

  1. Roscoe Arbuckle

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    You've never listened to Rogan. He allows just about anyone on and allows them to speak for hours. And was a Bernie supporter in 2020...
     
  2. Downtown Sniper

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  3. Roscoe Arbuckle

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  4. El_Conquistador

    El_Conquistador King of the D&D, The Legend, #1 Ranking

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    For society to function well, a High Value Man at some point needs to get married and be a father to his kids alongside their mother, in the same home. Boys and girls not having two parents in the home is perhaps the biggest problem facing the inner city community today. Many inner city "dads" view their commitment to their family as optional, and marriage rates are very low. It's a huge problem.
     
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  5. Houstunna

    Houstunna Mr Graphix
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    Agreed two-parent homes are the biggest problem but I think completely opposite why they're lacking. Women think men are optional... and the government helps make this mindset an easier decision. Ending welfare would solve 90% of inner-city problems within 10 years
     
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  6. superfob

    superfob Mommy WOW! I'm a Big Kid now.

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    Eugenics would do it faster. Am I doing this right?
     
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  7. Xerobull

    Xerobull ...and I'm all out of bubblegum
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    So you think that men and women are completely the same and completely equal in every way? Seeking to understand your POV.

    (I don't take it personally, brother. )
     
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  8. El_Conquistador

    El_Conquistador King of the D&D, The Legend, #1 Ranking

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    I believe a more plausible explanation is that is the men want their independence and to not be tied down to the responsibilities of being a parent... as well as not being tied down to just one woman. The women would benefit from the man's help... and a woman with a baby is not out at the club like a man could be.
     
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  9. Houstunna

    Houstunna Mr Graphix
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    I'm sure there are many men fitting your description. However, pregnancy/children are mostly a women's decision. Women control access to sex and whether or not a child is born. And they often use manipulation to get pregnant in the first place. Men have responsibility too even if it takes hot sauce in a used condom ala Drake
     
  10. Xerobull

    Xerobull ...and I'm all out of bubblegum
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    I personally believe there's a deep, systemic and cyclical fracture in 'inner-city' family group dynamics going back to slavery. Women had to be 'strong' to raise their kids, men are allowed to be loafers and goof-offs. The whole impetus behind KS' channel is that he wants to influence and change this paradigm for black people. Men are the strong bread-winners, women are there to support them. This isn't rocket chemistry, it's how humans have been coupling for thousands of years.

    I want to note that this sort of behavior in men isn't new or isolated to black people; my great-grandfather who was as white as they come, ran out on my grandmother's family in the 1920's. But with WWII and the dominance of the USA in the world, there was a newfound wealth and prosperity that made it easier for white families to stay together (which resulted in Boomers being terribly dysfunctional but that's a different discussion).
     
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  11. REEKO_HTOWN

    REEKO_HTOWN I'm Rich Biiiiaaatch!

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    You seem to have a toxic general view of relationships. I'm here to tell you that not all women are bad. You will find true love someday so don't let negative anecdotes turn you into something nasty. Remember you came out of and I assume loved and cared for by a woman.
     
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  12. daywalker02

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    Ever heard of a man having multiple kids with multiple women...

    You are tied down no matter what unless you could sterilize oneself or use protection even if you are totally drunk.

    I think there are certain lifestyles and certain jobs that make it easy to have no kids.

    Easier said than done and I do think dorks are pretty content with being tied down to one woman.

    There are just people who want to prove themselves in their 40s, 50s, 60s and who have tons of money to spend on women/chicks.

    For some people sleeping around just gets tedious or non affordable.
     
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  13. Houstunna

    Houstunna Mr Graphix
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    Of course it's not all women. I still love and respect them and have sympathy for them same way most guys do
     
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    Not all women get to demand what they want in a man it's a very small percentage, its more women hoping to have any kind of meaningful relationship than women demanding what they want.

    Men have been demanding what they want in a woman since the beginning of time and women just started trying to do the same in the late 60s and 70s, and they still don't have the same power to demand as men do.

    His basic premise is bullshit in my mind, and he is catering to a certain type of man that thinks they are owed something, and a lot of that is because they were born male.

    I have no problem with the bolded question, my issue is how he thinks you go about getting what you want.

    I thought we were much more advanced than this when it comes to male and female relationships, but I guess not.
     
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    I have no idea what you think this proves, and no he does not allow just anyone on and lets them speaks for hrs.

    I don't know what being a Bernie supporter is supposed to mean, does that somehow make him above reproach?
     
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    No, not completely the same (what would be the fun in that) yes completely equal are we not both human beings?

    Do you not think men and women are equal?

    Why do you not think that, if so?
     
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    That's a pretty simplistic view of history there have been plenty of matriarchal societies as well.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matriarchy
     
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    Yes.

    Women tend to settle far more than men.

    Do women have the equivalent of incels or this guy?
     
  19. Nook

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    The idea that the ability to be choosy is limited to women is absurd.

    Women don't have the same level of power in the world that men do, and they won't for some time.

    Men confuse equality for equity and they are vastly different.

    This is exactly what it is.

    There is white entitlement....... and their is male entitlement.

    While wealthy white men are at the top of the entitlement pyramid, men are ahead of women on the pyramid.

    The fact that someone can believe in white entitlement and not male entitlement is bizarre to me.

    Often times by being an *******, or an incel.

    We are better than we were even 10 years ago, but we have a long way to go.

    The West has made an emphasis on race relations, LGBTQ and even to some degree socio economic issues.... but the reality that women are discriminated against isn't dealt with and women are told constantly to but their struggles aside constantly.
     
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  20. Nook

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    Yes they do, but it isn't as popular or as common.

    There are a lot of women that are aware and agree with male entitlement, but they don't hate men.... they may just have different expectations.
     
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