I've met a couple "high value men" in my lifetime and I can tell you they've both proved to be low integrity sorts. Either way, props to the OP! That's hilarious!
The High-Value Man Conversation: Where’s the Quality? https://www.star-revue.com/the-high...s-are-exploiting-everyone-by-roderick-thomas/ I didn't realize this was a conversation. Question: can sturdy NBA players of means and influence be high value men? or is the concept restricted to non-sturdy individuals of means and influence?
Kevin Samuels has an interesting show this week about high value men cheating on their spouses. Based loosely on his criteria, I fit the mold for HVM and my wife is a pretty good archetype for the ideal wife for HFM. However, I am not really interested in other women for a few reasons. 1. My wife keeps me more than satisfied. 2. I'm not really that interested in other women (I sowed my oats x100). 3. I do not want the drama or even the work of another woma(e)n. I think what KS is lumping in here is a certain type of relationship with your spouse. I have friends who openly have flings on the side and their spouse is OK with it, mostly because the pros of the marriage outweigh the cons of divorce. Then there are other guys I know like @Nook who just decide to have an open marriage, which is totally fine, too.
I started this thread as a joke but there's actually a lot for men to learn here. KS talks about Modern Women a lot. I had the same epiphany about 20 years ago with my long-time, ex-gf. She was all about modern whatever, celebrity gossip, being supported, and not doing much for me. I dumped her and while I was shagging everything that moved, didn't think that I would find a good woman who would give me what I needed in a long term relationship in the US. I figured I would eventually have to go overseas to Eastern Europe or Asia to find a more traditional woman who would support me in my endeavors. Surprisingly, I ended up meeting my wife, who was from a tiny town in rural Indiana and raised by very traditional parents; her mother was Amish as a child until her parents left the church. So very 'traditional'.
Kevin Samuels is one of a kind. It depends on which values because there is a lot of women aspect on his list. If independent women are so praised in this very era why not men who want nothing to do with women?
I think his vids are too long and even though he does not let his listeners overtalk him, that is the best part of his show. Choose the boring girl next door - he always said this.
The hood rats who are in love with him and call in to be able to say anything get a little repetitive and tedious. I know it's a selling point, though. It reminds me of the Dave Ramsey show and how every other call is 'I believe in your program but my spouse doesn't! What do I do?' zzzzz
Good memory. Nah, that chick was when I was 19-20. I put it on a pedestal and eventually it went real sour. The long-term GF was after her. Her friend, though, hot damn.
