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Need some advice (should I ask this girl out?)

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by JMAD21, Apr 24, 2017.

  1. JMAD21

    JMAD21 Member

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    I realize that. That's why I'm frustrated right now, but I wasn't about to ask this girl out in front of abunch of kids, parents, and co-workers....
     
  2. FTW Rockets FTW

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    Forget about her. Move on and target someone else.
     
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  3. Falcons Talon

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    She's not toying with him. She came up to him. If that's not an opening, I don't know what is. Call her, and for God's sake, if she answers, don't hang up.
     
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  4. daywalker02

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    You got to ask the man, from what I have heard here, she does not answer him several times.

    She baits him with one message and then stops answering.

    I just read couple posts from him with the same feigning interest and then leaving him in the rain.

    If that is not toying, I dun know, brah. Or she is not realizing what she has been doing.

    I sure hope for him that is not the case.
     
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  5. daywalker02

    daywalker02 Member

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    That is not bad. Sometimes life is full of blessings in disguises.

    For example the dude from 100 Days of Summer indie film.

    He got toyed by his emotions and that above average gal Summer and ends up meeting another one, Autumn - Minka Kelly
     
  6. JMAD21

    JMAD21 Member

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    Minka Kelly is fine
     
  7. dachuda86

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    Cast your net far and wide my son... far and wide...

    [​IMG]
     
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  8. bobrek

    bobrek Politics belong in the D & D

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    that's what she said
     
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  9. TheresTheDagger

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    I've never regretted the ladies I asked out who turned me down. At least I know.
     
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  10. Falcons Talon

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    If all else fails, give her this:

    [​IMG]
     
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  11. arno_ed

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    Agreed. you only regret the Girls you did not ask out.

    Just call her. The worst that can happen is she says no. But atleast you tried.
     
  12. Bandwagoner

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    That guy has similar hand writing as JJ Watt. All print letters with each word starting with a capital letter.
    [​IMG]
     
  13. Invisible Fan

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    It could be that she wants jmad to pursue her and move out of that grey area between friends and romantic interest.

    The way this guy acts sounds like he carries an unsure attitude. Women pick that **** up quick, and will react accordingly. I'd consider it toying if he's chasing her and doing straighforward moves. He's not, so she'll send mixed messages of her own since it looks like both sides enjoy each other's company as friends. Both are afraid of rejection and the unknown. Or maybe she's not, and this is her way of dropping hints of wanting to be pursued without telling him directly (within a timeframe).

    Most guys aren't lucky to be pursued by the women he likes. It's just the way the world works...even in 2017.

    The advice of staying or acting confident stems from being able to pick yourself up in case you accidentally knock each other down AND letting her feel comfortable or safe with the result.

    We all make mistakes, and analysis paralysis is ironically part of the problem.
     
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  14. CometsWin

    CometsWin Breaker Breaker One Nine

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    Okay, now you're a b****.
     
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  15. FranchiseBlade

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    You should ask her out, but from now on when you talk to her adopt an English accent. If she asks why you're talking like that, tell her that you had been working on the American accent for long enough, and feel that you have it down now. Tell her that you've decided to go back to your natural British accent. Ask her if she really thought you were American the whole time? No matter what she says just laugh, and never drop the English accent. Whether or not you can do any kind of authentic accent doesn't matter. Just do your best and keep going with it. It might be even more fun if the accent is really bad, but don't try and make it bad, just do the best you can.

    If she doesn't go out with you or eventually breaks up with you because of the fake British accent, make sure to use the phrase "bloody yank" in your English accent and walk off.
     
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  16. Roscoe Arbuckle

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    Look; I'm gonna make it easy for you. Broads love being asked out to dinner. You're already close enough to her. Just tell her that you've just found out about a fantastic sushi place, and would like her to try it with you. Broads love sushi. Let the night take itself from there. Typically works for me.

    If not? Nothing but Dick Pics.
     
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  17. CometsWin

    CometsWin Breaker Breaker One Nine

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    Also, use the words broad and dame a lot.
     
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  18. Roscoe Arbuckle

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    At least in my group, girls these days find the words hilarious. You just have to have the confidence to say them.

    (and I shouldn't have to say this, but it is always tongue in cheek)
     
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  19. dachuda86

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    You're going to fit in well here...
     
  20. Sajan

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    This man speaks the truth.
    I asked a girl..i mean broad... out to dinner last year and she said she had a boyfriend.
    recently someone told me that broad was single...so i asked the broad out to dinner again the other day but this time i mentioned sushi...and she said of course i would love to eat sushi with you.
    i will let the clutchfans know what happens tonight.
     
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